Broken heart and soul

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Was with my girlfriend for over five and a half years. I lost my chance to be her partner.  It hurts. I didn&#x2019;t move in full time like I was supposed to.. I miss her and the dogs and cats. My heart is sad. This was real love. I can&#x2019;t ever say I had that ever in my life. Why do I make bad choices and ruin a good thing... Never thought this would happen. We&#x2019;re happy together..

JimmyGape · Accepted Answer

Try to get her back. GL

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

Was with my girlfriend for over five and a half years. I lost my chance to be her partner.  It hurts. I didn&#x2019;t move in full time like I was supposed to.. I miss her and the dogs and cats. My heart is sad. This was real love. I can&#x2019;t ever say I had that ever in my life. Why do I make bad choices and ruin a good thing... Never thought this would happen. We&#x2019;re happy together..

idle_havoc · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by Blue-eyes24]Was with my girlfriend for over five and a half years. I lost my chance to be her partner.  It hurts. I didn&#x2019;t move in full time like I was supposed to.. I miss her and the dogs and cats. My heart is sad. This was real love. I can&#x2019;t ever say I had that ever in my life. Why do I make bad choices and ruin a good thing... Never thought this would happen. We&#x2019;re happy together..[/Quote]&#xA;Your post makes you seem like a whiny sniveling dweeb which is why she likely dumped you

666LES · Answer

MGTOW .........she would only drag you down.

North-Japan · Answer

Been there. But things will turn around bro. Stay positive! Trust in God or whatever, things might change for the best!

coakley69 · Answer

Go get a ring and make it official. GL.

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

Thank you for stopping by. I tired. I think I lost my chance. It sucks because this is the first woman I ever truly loved. Would give her the world. We have dogs and cats too. Hurts bad.

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

. Wish I did that when I had the chance. Would&#x2019;ve shown her I wanted it all. Thanks for your words.

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by North-Japan]  Been there. But things will turn around bro. Stay positive! Trust in God or whatever, things might change for the best!  [/Quote]. I appreciate your caring words and time. Wish it was that easy. Memories is all I have now.

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

. I&#x2019;m 48.. don&#x2019;t know the cool slang brother. What does that stand for,, she is beautiful,smart and loving. How would that drag me down. My heart is now  shattered.

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

. moving on is a thing people say in many walks of life. However in reality why would someone want to move on from someone they love.

Midnight1 · Answer

You obviously both love the animals. Maybe you can play that angle to get her back.

I'd go after her but if she hooks up with another dude, it's really really over brother.

Good luck! an_cheers

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by Midnight1]  You obviously both love the animals. Maybe you can play that angle to get her back.&#xD;&#xA;I&#x27;d go after her but if she hooks up with another dude, it&#x27;s really really over brother.&#xD;&#xA;Good luck!   [/Quote]. Worst fear is that. She would never cheat and loves me more than any other man. Her words .. However as time goes by I lose hope. You can&#x2019;t just replace someone after 5 and a half years that soon can you... hearts don&#x2019;t work like that right.    Thanks for your supportive words brother

SteelCity203 · Answer

Where does she work? I can stop by and talk to her for you.

Rangers27 · Answer

Ok, i&#x2019;m 65 . Been around block few times. I lost loves , over years. Don&#x2019;t call her late especially if you been drinking. Try everything you can. Write her letter, invite lunch no strings attach. I think you got couple weeks to get this done. Sounds like she wants you move him. Do it , if she takes you back. I wouldn&#x2019;t run get a ring, until she takes you back. If she don&#x2019;t learn your lesson on next one. Join those dating sites. If she says no way. Keep busy working, &amp; reconnect with friends .Good luck Go 49ers

666LES · Answer

MGTOW- Men Going Their Own Way. 48 is a little old to be moping like a Teenager.Marriage is a scam invented by female/paternalistic legal system to insure a male doesn't abandon a mate/offspring.Do some thinking with the Big Brain and less with the little brain.

If she is Smart and a Loving Individual,could it be that she does Love you and doesn't want to engage you in a relationship that really will only serve to smother/strangle a mutual loving relationship.Could she have sensed that you were moving a little strong when children were not realistic or any other reason was present to make a serious commitment.

666LES · Answer

I don&#x27;t know if theres a God above.But what I&#x27;ve been able to learn from LoveWas how to Shoot someone who has outdrew You.Its not a Pilgram&#x27;s lonely prayer,butjust a Cold and Somber Hallelujah....

Blue-eyes24 · Answer

First of all I do appreciate your words and taking the time to write me. Am I not allowed to be sad . 48 is a number. My heart actually has more pain because I&#x2019;ve been here longer than a 30 something year old. She didn&#x2019;t want kids. Our dogs and cats were our babies. She loves me more than any man. I blew it by not moving I&#x2019;m full time with her and getting a job in her town. She didn&#x2019;t believe in the marriage on paper thing .. however I sure wanted to share a life with us all. Sammy

THEMUGG · Answer

I&#x27;m generally a "glass is 1/3 full" type ...........the bright side is that you weren&#x27;t married &amp; she isn&#x27;t taking half your dung with her.

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