Good luck. I'm trying to give up booze and cocaine for a month and then go from there. Hopefully both can be something I do in extreme moderation in social settings. I want to be to the point where I can go out and have two drinks and that's it. I've got almost a week in without blow though.
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Good luck. I'm trying to give up booze and cocaine for a month and then go from there. Hopefully both can be something I do in extreme moderation in social settings. I want to be to the point where I can go out and have two drinks and that's it. I've got almost a week in without blow though.
Some of you guys know I'm in recovery. I crossed that line into alcoholism about 6 years ago.
I wish I could drink like a normal person but I have no off switch.
I can tell you this. If you start to notice "dry drunk" behavior, do yourself and everyone around you a favor and start drinking socially again. Dont make people's lives around you miserable.
Nothing is worse than a dry drunk. Might as well be drinking. Not even kidding.
That's assuming you're not a full blown alcoholic like me. I have no choice but to stop and work a program.
Happy New Year and good luck.
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Some of you guys know I'm in recovery. I crossed that line into alcoholism about 6 years ago.
I wish I could drink like a normal person but I have no off switch.
I can tell you this. If you start to notice "dry drunk" behavior, do yourself and everyone around you a favor and start drinking socially again. Dont make people's lives around you miserable.
Nothing is worse than a dry drunk. Might as well be drinking. Not even kidding.
That's assuming you're not a full blown alcoholic like me. I have no choice but to stop and work a program.
Some of you guys know I'm in recovery. I crossed that line into alcoholism about 6 years ago. I wish I could drink like a normal person but I have no off switch. I can tell you this. If you start to notice "dry drunk" behavior, do yourself and everyone around you a favor and start drinking socially again. Dont make people's lives around you miserable. Nothing is worse than a dry drunk. Might as well be drinking. Not even kidding. That's assuming you're not a full blown alcoholic like me. I have no choice but to stop and work a program. Happy New Year and good luck.
Keep fighting that fight, Slobs. Much love and support, bro.
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Quote Originally Posted by Slobbasaurus:
Some of you guys know I'm in recovery. I crossed that line into alcoholism about 6 years ago. I wish I could drink like a normal person but I have no off switch. I can tell you this. If you start to notice "dry drunk" behavior, do yourself and everyone around you a favor and start drinking socially again. Dont make people's lives around you miserable. Nothing is worse than a dry drunk. Might as well be drinking. Not even kidding. That's assuming you're not a full blown alcoholic like me. I have no choice but to stop and work a program. Happy New Year and good luck.
Keep fighting that fight, Slobs. Much love and support, bro.
Just saw on 60 Minutes, and alcoholic who overcame via psilocybin. Its the active ingredient in MagicMushrooms. The segment also featured psilocybin addressing other neurological disorders; depression, anxiety, PTSD, and a variety of addictions. Good friend of mind brought it to my attention after ending a 30 year battle with pornography. No longer saw his wife as an object. Intimacy returned. Reconnect pathways, 85% success rate; research it gentlemen.
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Just saw on 60 Minutes, and alcoholic who overcame via psilocybin. Its the active ingredient in MagicMushrooms. The segment also featured psilocybin addressing other neurological disorders; depression, anxiety, PTSD, and a variety of addictions. Good friend of mind brought it to my attention after ending a 30 year battle with pornography. No longer saw his wife as an object. Intimacy returned. Reconnect pathways, 85% success rate; research it gentlemen.
Also, within the last year, psilocybin has been decrimalized / legalized in Chicago, Denver, Oakland, Santa Cruz, and is on the ballot (November 2020) in Oregon. (California also possible)
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Also, within the last year, psilocybin has been decrimalized / legalized in Chicago, Denver, Oakland, Santa Cruz, and is on the ballot (November 2020) in Oregon. (California also possible)
Some of you guys know I'm in recovery. I crossed that line into alcoholism about 6 years ago. I wish I could drink like a normal person but I have no off switch. I can tell you this. If you start to notice "dry drunk" behavior, do yourself and everyone around you a favor and start drinking socially again. Dont make people's lives around you miserable. Nothing is worse than a dry drunk. Might as well be drinking. Not even kidding. That's assuming you're not a full blown alcoholic like me. I have no choice but to stop and work a program. Happy New Year and good luck.
Keep fighting that fight, Slobs. Much love and support, bro.
I appreciate your kind words Stump.
I was in pretty desperate shape when I stopped. It's the only way that it will get you to start being seriously committed to stopping.
Sadly, for us alcoholics, consequences mean little when we're fully active.
I'm grateful I have a solid foundation to my sobriety. I have to be vigilant. When you're in the rooms of AA for several years, you meet people who end up dying or going back out after years of sobriety. It's crazy and scary.
Anyways, good luck to you gents. if you havent crossed the line, enjoy your drinking.
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Quote Originally Posted by StumpTownStu:
Quote Originally Posted by Slobbasaurus:
Some of you guys know I'm in recovery. I crossed that line into alcoholism about 6 years ago. I wish I could drink like a normal person but I have no off switch. I can tell you this. If you start to notice "dry drunk" behavior, do yourself and everyone around you a favor and start drinking socially again. Dont make people's lives around you miserable. Nothing is worse than a dry drunk. Might as well be drinking. Not even kidding. That's assuming you're not a full blown alcoholic like me. I have no choice but to stop and work a program. Happy New Year and good luck.
Keep fighting that fight, Slobs. Much love and support, bro.
I appreciate your kind words Stump.
I was in pretty desperate shape when I stopped. It's the only way that it will get you to start being seriously committed to stopping.
Sadly, for us alcoholics, consequences mean little when we're fully active.
I'm grateful I have a solid foundation to my sobriety. I have to be vigilant. When you're in the rooms of AA for several years, you meet people who end up dying or going back out after years of sobriety. It's crazy and scary.
Anyways, good luck to you gents. if you havent crossed the line, enjoy your drinking.
Good luck. I'm trying to give up booze and cocaine for a month and then go from there. Hopefully both can be something I do in extreme moderation in social settings. I want to be to the point where I can go out and have two drinks and that's it. I've got almost a week in without blow though.
everything in moderation bro. especially the blow
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Quote Originally Posted by StumpTownStu:
Good luck. I'm trying to give up booze and cocaine for a month and then go from there. Hopefully both can be something I do in extreme moderation in social settings. I want to be to the point where I can go out and have two drinks and that's it. I've got almost a week in without blow though.
Good luck. I'm trying to give up booze and cocaine for a month and then go from there. Hopefully both can be something I do in extreme moderation in social settings. I want to be to the point where I can go out and have two drinks and that's it. I've got almost a week in without blow though.
Won't work pal. There's no such thing as giving it up in moderation. Giving it up is the exact same as graduating High School. Once you've graduated High School-you can't ever go back. If you really want to quit-you have to give up all the People & all the Places & all the situations that can cause your cravings to relapse---FOREVER. IT's OVER. And that's the key. Leaving it all behind is the toughest part. Getting sober is a brutally lonely journey because only you can do it--it can't be done for you. It's 70 days of your brain pleading for drugs & alcohol & you have to fight those internal cravings & not give in & start using again. After 90 days-the strong cravings start to go away & you'll start feeling better then ever. Sobriety is lonely-but the benefits are amazing. Best of luck.
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Quote Originally Posted by StumpTownStu:
Good luck. I'm trying to give up booze and cocaine for a month and then go from there. Hopefully both can be something I do in extreme moderation in social settings. I want to be to the point where I can go out and have two drinks and that's it. I've got almost a week in without blow though.
Won't work pal. There's no such thing as giving it up in moderation. Giving it up is the exact same as graduating High School. Once you've graduated High School-you can't ever go back. If you really want to quit-you have to give up all the People & all the Places & all the situations that can cause your cravings to relapse---FOREVER. IT's OVER. And that's the key. Leaving it all behind is the toughest part. Getting sober is a brutally lonely journey because only you can do it--it can't be done for you. It's 70 days of your brain pleading for drugs & alcohol & you have to fight those internal cravings & not give in & start using again. After 90 days-the strong cravings start to go away & you'll start feeling better then ever. Sobriety is lonely-but the benefits are amazing. Best of luck.
If you really want to quit-you have to give up all the People & all the Places & all the situations that can cause your cravings to relapse---FOREVER. IT's OVER. And that's the key. Leaving it all behind is the toughest part. Getting sober is a brutally lonely journey because only you can do it--it can't be done for you.
The scary and sad part is when you realize that with certain groups of friends, all you had in common was drinking and nothing else. Dropping those friends that you're formed relationships with through alcohol can be hard but it must be done in order to get sober. Your weekday nights and weekends will be very, VERY lonely but in time, you'll adapt and find new hobbies along with new friends.
As for me, I've been sober for 1 year and 4 months..
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Quote Originally Posted by gold6185:
Quote Originally Posted by StumpTownStu:
If you really want to quit-you have to give up all the People & all the Places & all the situations that can cause your cravings to relapse---FOREVER. IT's OVER. And that's the key. Leaving it all behind is the toughest part. Getting sober is a brutally lonely journey because only you can do it--it can't be done for you.
The scary and sad part is when you realize that with certain groups of friends, all you had in common was drinking and nothing else. Dropping those friends that you're formed relationships with through alcohol can be hard but it must be done in order to get sober. Your weekday nights and weekends will be very, VERY lonely but in time, you'll adapt and find new hobbies along with new friends.
As for me, I've been sober for 1 year and 4 months..
Also, within the last year, psilocybin has been decrimalized / legalized in Chicago, Denver, Oakland, Santa Cruz, and is on the ballot (November 2020) in Oregon. (California also possible)
i don't think that's true about chicago. they passed a resolution but that didn't push to make it legal.
for all of you on the wagon, congrats to you all
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Quote Originally Posted by DHass22:
Also, within the last year, psilocybin has been decrimalized / legalized in Chicago, Denver, Oakland, Santa Cruz, and is on the ballot (November 2020) in Oregon. (California also possible)
i don't think that's true about chicago. they passed a resolution but that didn't push to make it legal.
A lot of true, good insight here. I quit everything for just over 3 years in an effort to save a marriage. It didn't work for the marriage, but I gained a lot of personal insight. Slob is spot on about being a dry drunk, ie don't go around telling everyone about your issues &/or being a downer/pisssed-off person. Nobody wants to hear it, certainly not more than once. I learned that from an earlier 6 month stint, so the 3 years was much easier on me & others.
Why did I go back? Boredom......didn't know how, or forgot how, to use my time effectively when not drinking or being hung over. That, & the pressure I put on myself to "be part of my crowd". I've got some good friends that drink & don't scrutinize, but it's odd that some people find those that don't drink or are quitting to be a threat to their good times, or are boring. In a similar respect, I find being around a bunch of drunks when I'm sober to be unbearable. In fact it's laughable to hear the "conversations".
I've taken up some hobbies (the gym.....repairing vintage audio gear) that are stimulating & fill the void. I'm a bit of an OCD person...... I'm "all in" when I drink, so I save my instances for a big game or occasion & plan for it, ie where I'm passing out that night, & it's now maybe once a week. Mine is not a plan to copy.......it's MY work in progress. I'm working to quit for good eventually. But I keep myself & others safe in the mean time.
mr bollox........you'll get questioned about it, as I'm sure you already have. I found that telling people I have stomach issues or high BP, etc. is a good way to ward off scrutiny. It's weird how some respond when told you're quitting, but most won't question someone quitting for health reasons. It's your quest, for your reasons, & it's easier than a sermon about all that.
Sorry for the rant......it helps me sometimes. Congrats to all in their efforts & GL.
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A lot of true, good insight here. I quit everything for just over 3 years in an effort to save a marriage. It didn't work for the marriage, but I gained a lot of personal insight. Slob is spot on about being a dry drunk, ie don't go around telling everyone about your issues &/or being a downer/pisssed-off person. Nobody wants to hear it, certainly not more than once. I learned that from an earlier 6 month stint, so the 3 years was much easier on me & others.
Why did I go back? Boredom......didn't know how, or forgot how, to use my time effectively when not drinking or being hung over. That, & the pressure I put on myself to "be part of my crowd". I've got some good friends that drink & don't scrutinize, but it's odd that some people find those that don't drink or are quitting to be a threat to their good times, or are boring. In a similar respect, I find being around a bunch of drunks when I'm sober to be unbearable. In fact it's laughable to hear the "conversations".
I've taken up some hobbies (the gym.....repairing vintage audio gear) that are stimulating & fill the void. I'm a bit of an OCD person...... I'm "all in" when I drink, so I save my instances for a big game or occasion & plan for it, ie where I'm passing out that night, & it's now maybe once a week. Mine is not a plan to copy.......it's MY work in progress. I'm working to quit for good eventually. But I keep myself & others safe in the mean time.
mr bollox........you'll get questioned about it, as I'm sure you already have. I found that telling people I have stomach issues or high BP, etc. is a good way to ward off scrutiny. It's weird how some respond when told you're quitting, but most won't question someone quitting for health reasons. It's your quest, for your reasons, & it's easier than a sermon about all that.
Sorry for the rant......it helps me sometimes. Congrats to all in their efforts & GL.
Just saw on 60 Minutes, and alcoholic who overcame via psilocybin. Its the active ingredient in MagicMushrooms. The segment also featured psilocybin addressing other neurological disorders; depression, anxiety, PTSD, and a variety of addictions. Good friend of mind brought it to my attention after ending a 30 year battle with pornography. No longer saw his wife as an object. Intimacy returned. Reconnect pathways, 85% success rate; research it gentlemen.
I use psilocybin in a controlled setting about once a year. I have been doing this for about 20 years now, and it has greatly helped me with many troubles in my life, and helped me overcome many obstacles along the way. I advise anyone thinking about using psilocybin to do many hours of research before jumping in. There can be infinite benefits if used correctly. It can come through difficult experiences, or it may come easy. One cannot know how the teachings are revealed until you are already in the experience. Do as much preparation in advance to be ready for whatever may come.
Good luck.
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Quote Originally Posted by DHass22:
Just saw on 60 Minutes, and alcoholic who overcame via psilocybin. Its the active ingredient in MagicMushrooms. The segment also featured psilocybin addressing other neurological disorders; depression, anxiety, PTSD, and a variety of addictions. Good friend of mind brought it to my attention after ending a 30 year battle with pornography. No longer saw his wife as an object. Intimacy returned. Reconnect pathways, 85% success rate; research it gentlemen.
I use psilocybin in a controlled setting about once a year. I have been doing this for about 20 years now, and it has greatly helped me with many troubles in my life, and helped me overcome many obstacles along the way. I advise anyone thinking about using psilocybin to do many hours of research before jumping in. There can be infinite benefits if used correctly. It can come through difficult experiences, or it may come easy. One cannot know how the teachings are revealed until you are already in the experience. Do as much preparation in advance to be ready for whatever may come.
Good thread and some interesting posts fellow drunkards.. I'm pretty much hanging on with booze. My life pressure has reached the most extreme of limits.
Maybe we can keep this thread going.
Helps me.
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Good thread and some interesting posts fellow drunkards.. I'm pretty much hanging on with booze. My life pressure has reached the most extreme of limits.
I started drinking vodka cause I met a girl who is an alcoholic, needless to say the relationship has been toxic mainly because of her narcissistic traits but I alcohol has much to do with it too. I'm at a 5th a day now anybody got advice on how to stop?
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I started drinking vodka cause I met a girl who is an alcoholic, needless to say the relationship has been toxic mainly because of her narcissistic traits but I alcohol has much to do with it too. I'm at a 5th a day now anybody got advice on how to stop?
I'm at a 5th a day now anybody got advice on how to stop?
Obviously she drinks everyday? Which therefore causes you to drink? You're not going to like the answer or it might result in a fight but you're going to have to limit/stop her drinking or leave/kick her out.. Then again, I'm sure you're banging the f*ck outta her so you'll miss out on that. My solution to stop ANY habit/addiction is to not have it near you. If it's not near you, you won't be tempted by it. Granted, I don't know what degree of alcoholism you have so it's easier said than done.
BOL on how you handle this situation..
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Quote Originally Posted by jetski6:
I'm at a 5th a day now anybody got advice on how to stop?
Obviously she drinks everyday? Which therefore causes you to drink? You're not going to like the answer or it might result in a fight but you're going to have to limit/stop her drinking or leave/kick her out.. Then again, I'm sure you're banging the f*ck outta her so you'll miss out on that. My solution to stop ANY habit/addiction is to not have it near you. If it's not near you, you won't be tempted by it. Granted, I don't know what degree of alcoholism you have so it's easier said than done.
Thanks for advice square, I'm close to 5th a day for about 6 months now I never have felt withdrawal but I'm sure once I stop for a few days I will. Mary Jane is legal in Illinois now so looking into getting a pen and some wax to stop drinking. Yes the sex is great and that's why I've been hanging on but ya I think ur right I need her out of my life on a consistent basis. Not her fault it's a choice I made but it will be easier to stop without her around...
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Thanks for advice square, I'm close to 5th a day for about 6 months now I never have felt withdrawal but I'm sure once I stop for a few days I will. Mary Jane is legal in Illinois now so looking into getting a pen and some wax to stop drinking. Yes the sex is great and that's why I've been hanging on but ya I think ur right I need her out of my life on a consistent basis. Not her fault it's a choice I made but it will be easier to stop without her around...
Was doing about 5 oz a day, vodka. Mixed it with ginger ale, v8 juice, lemon and tobasco. My blood test always came back great and the doc never had medications he wanted me to take.
Exercised daily. Jogged intermittently and did ellipticals at the gym. Kept my weight decent. Once I stopped the cardio, my cholesterol started to go up along with my weight.
went on a plant based diet and stopped the booze for 3 months. Lost 18lbs and don’t miss the booze or the time I spent under its influence. It all felt absolutely great physically and mentally.
We are all different of course. But it works if you give it a chance. Want to remain for a while for quality time with the kids and grandkids. I cheat sometimes, but it lost it lustre.
One more thing.?. I loved bragging about how good I was feeling. If you cant stop, just get on a decent exercise program. It will amaze you..
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Was doing about 5 oz a day, vodka. Mixed it with ginger ale, v8 juice, lemon and tobasco. My blood test always came back great and the doc never had medications he wanted me to take.
Exercised daily. Jogged intermittently and did ellipticals at the gym. Kept my weight decent. Once I stopped the cardio, my cholesterol started to go up along with my weight.
went on a plant based diet and stopped the booze for 3 months. Lost 18lbs and don’t miss the booze or the time I spent under its influence. It all felt absolutely great physically and mentally.
We are all different of course. But it works if you give it a chance. Want to remain for a while for quality time with the kids and grandkids. I cheat sometimes, but it lost it lustre.
One more thing.?. I loved bragging about how good I was feeling. If you cant stop, just get on a decent exercise program. It will amaze you..
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