Why do not people write wills???

Question

This probate sh!t is a king sized PIA with my mother-in-laws estate

TheGoldenGoose · Answer

This probate sh!t is a king sized PIA with my mother-in-laws estate

searchwarrant · Answer

Total nightmare. Love my mother but omg, write a will! All of my crap is TUD to a buddy. Don&#x27;t want anyone having to deal with hassles when I&#x27;m in the dirt.

Crusher13 · Answer

Exactly why we ALL have to have a plan...to the bitter end ....

I've already decided where I want to rest for eternity..in the most beautiful, peaceful cemetary(out of the way at that) no one will bother visiting

1129ken · Answer

My first boss ( a lawyer, no less ) was superstitious about making a will because he thought once he did, he'd die. An extremely intelligent, nice man, but he couldn't shake that feeling. Strange.

nature1970 · Answer

a will admits mortality and the eventual end of life in a body it also represent age. some do not like to admit they are growing and being old is insulting to many women and death is fear to most.... so to put in writing a will is a way  to recognize how old one has become. how far away their youth is.

searchwarrant · Answer

What a dipchit. Same kinda bunch that thinks hearses pull U hauls.

TheGoldenGoose · Answer

Well, fukk it, I got my sh!t together;Including explicit directions to wifey to inform the Covers General Discussion forum.

Crusher13 · Answer

Sure the PB or Music might be more applicable

Goggles-Pisano · Answer

I was the executor of my mother&#x27;s estate 9 years ago. Yes she had a will but it was a very difficult process end to end.

Slobbasaurus · Answer

Great, I&#x27;m the executor of both my parents as well as my uncle/aunt.  I guess it&#x27;s not good to be the "responsible one" and that I chose accountancy as my profession.  This ought to compound the misery of the grieving process.

TheGoldenGoose · Answer

I offered Wells Fargo a more than appropriate CASH offer and theses fukkers are playing hardball Unreal these corporate fukks You'd think they would just roll over and die Offer now withdrawn Transferred to another corporate department Come and take the property I can play hardball too And you wonder why I hate these corporate fukks?

nature1970 · Answer

wells fargo is the worst... they had to pay so many law suits for violations of laws... and still they just do not get it.... hope the break that fnn bank.... they should be liquidated and absolved of ever running a mortgage bank the execs deserve to be in danbury for life.... in my humble opinion.

HockeyTeeth · Answer

I told my youngest brother to play two songs at my funeral but haven't given much thought to anything else.

In My Time of Dying,

Led Zepplin (google earls court performance, 1975ish)

Wasted Years,

Iron Maiden

Also contemplating cover charge, as i expect a large crowd.

Goggles-Pisano · Answer

Not much time for the grieving process as it starts with a meeting with the funeral director (obit, viewing time, pick the coffin, etc). Then the church, funeral service at cemetary or cremation and then the after funeral lunch. Thank you cards up next and now its time to meet with the Estate Attorney and real estate agent. Clean out the house and list it for sale. You&#x27;re selling the house because you&#x27;re the executor. Ever go thru that process? Negotiations, home inspection, another lawyer, closing crap, hidden nonsense like septic inspection, buried fuel tank, gray property lines, UGH! What a PITA. I dont recall all of the paperwork required by the state but it sucked. File this, submit that. Oh yeah, i&#x27;m from NJ just like you. Distribution of assets and dealing with anyone who belives they got short changed.Any minors getting an inheritance that the deceased doesnt want distributed till a certain age or earmarked for something specific? You guessed it, the Executor is responsible to set up a fund or something similar unless thats already spelled out. You would think thats a no brainer when writing the will but not always.The Estate Attorney asked me if i wanted to get paid to be the Executor and being "the good son " I said no, just like you will Slob. Now i know why they asked.

Slobbasaurus · Answer

Sounds like a nightmare, but I appreciate you not sugar-coating it.  Thanks Goggles

TheGoldenGoose · Answer

Yes, great post by Goggles. Makes you open your eyes. See things from a very different perspective. My father is 90 years old. Everybody was telling me to get "power of attorney". Blah blah blah. Then an attorney friend was discussing this and says, "wait a minute here", you&#x27;ve got a will in place just leave it alone. The only thing that power of attorney does is make you legally responsibable for everything the State wants done their own way. Makes you have to account for every penny you spend. Every breath you breathe. FTS.

searchwarrant · Answer

You&#x27;re wise beyond your years slob. It really,Fact I&#x27;d almost go as far as to say the "executor" process and responsibility is almost as bad as the loss, it&#x27;ll will drive a man to drink, and I mean drink hard and fast. There&#x27;s no time to properly grieve at all and when you do, nobody gives a rat&#x27;s fuk, as long as they get their proportionate share.. NIGHTMARE, THANKLESS HELL it is.

Slobbasaurus · Answer

Search Not looking forward to this at all.

Crusher13 · Answer

Hey GG..this is a VERY IMPORTANT thread for ALL of us degenerates here on this sensitive subject...Please let this PERSONAL thread heed some great advice

Nut_Flopper · Answer

I had a friend that passed from a heart attack (Stress induced) at 45 last month. Great all around dude and was in good shape and very active.

He had a thriving artificial turf business here in LA. Multiple out of state investment properties with lots of valuable personal property i.e. small vintage yacht he was refurbishing, several high end vehicles and racing motor cycles all paid for and flush with cash.

In January he had a baby with his fiance and I sold him their "forever home", a 1.5 million house he paid cash for in the same week.

He had so many irons in the fire and never rested for a second, whether work or play. When he had free time he was racing motocross at a high level.

They were going to get married soon and that's when he told me he was planning to slow down a bit and start enjoying things with the new family. He never got the chance.

I was surprised there was no will because he was very detailed about everything particularly business and finances.

For whatever reason his family has cut off his fiance so her friends had to set up a gofundme so she can hang on until it all goes through probate. It will get messy since they were not married. I know he would have wanted his fiance and kid to be well taken care of but the family seems to think otherwise.

Moral of the story: It is never too early not to draw up a will no matter how young you are.

RealCherylTunt · Answer

If you tell God things are all tied up down here, he might feel free to take you.

1129ken · Answer

I&#x27;d be careful with that thinking around these parts. Some dipchit might read your post and call you a dipchit.

the z bar · Answer

Tax and personal reasons is way I created my will a year ago.

searchwarrant · Answer

ken, I wasn&#x27;t calling you a DS, just the guy you know.

Why do not people write wills???

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