Fucked Up Girl Sitaution

There are a lot of dicks on this site. 

I'm going to give you legitimate advice.

You never said your age but I'm guessing fairly young and inexperienced.  I know this is painful but you need to just get over it and move on to the next woman. 

Bottom line:  She doesn't want a relationship with you.  I know it sucks and I know she has been somewhat cruel with mixed signals, etc but you can't force someone to love you when they don't. 

You don't want a relationship with every girl.  Every girl isn't going to want a relationship with you.  Thats going to be painful to deal with but its life.  Go back to the website (or bar, coffee shop, whatever...) and ask another girl out.  Eventually you'll find one where you both feel the same way.

PS.  "if she doesnt i will make her pay me back by threatning her"........

Really Really Bad!!! Don't even think about any form of threat, calling her father, anything.  Do you want a girlfriend or a hostage?

You will never ever get longterm love out of coercion.  I mean how would you feel about a girl that basically blackmailed you into going out with her. 

Move on.  Find someone else.

everyone hear me out im actually 22 next day

no offense to anyone here but i pull ass. all the time im looking for a nice girl to settle down with. This girl legit had EVERYTHING I wanted she was a nice chick, I dont want a person she wanted the same. We fucked it was dumb if i knew this was going to happen I wouldnt have done it. But she needed time to think about it and I dont like being ignored especially after something like this and she wouldnt talk to me so I was an annoying ass to her. I told her Id give her space I rushed it cause of valentines day and my birthday I wanted a girl with me for those times I never have before.

I did send her some Valentines stuff delieverd to her tomm. Flowers,Chocolate,Teddy Bear and Balloons.
Im expecting a txt shortly after delievered and Im hoping this is all resolved we both know whats there she is the real deal wayyyyy to good for me . If it happens it happens if it doesnt and she refuses them I will be a dick knowing I spent 86-88 bucks and shes being a bitch about it. Im going to get more drunk and get my mind off things I will either blog late late late late tonight or tommorrow have a nice night

You "pull ass" and you don't have a girlfriend...

Why aren't you dating any of the other women you slept with?

Probably because while you were sexually attracted to them at that particular moment, you didn't particularly want to date them.  Thats an extremely common feeling among men but its actually pretty common among women as well. 

You said you wanted a "nice" girl not a "person".  Thats actually pretty sexist and sort of a sign you might suffer from Madonna-person complex.  Women can enjoy one night stands as much as men do.  You don't judge men that want sex.  You shouldn't judge women either.

You need to face facts.  She wanted sex....The 3 am call should have been a clue.  She doesn't particularly want a boyfriend.  Or at least she doesn't want you as a boyfriend.  That might sound harsh but thats life. 

The Valentines stuff was a serious mistake.  Not only are you out about $80, you're getting serious close to stalker territory.   Get over it and move on. 

If you really do "pull ass" and you really do want a girlfriend, go back to the website and make another date with another girl.  Better yet, make dates with 5 other girls.  Eventually you'll find the right one. 

 Dont we all Capt

Holy crap he's 22 I also thought I knew everything at 22.  Now Iam 35 and realize I don't know fuck all.

Also fishing on Valentines Day is not fair game and will not net you a fair indication if she's really into you.  Its like fishing after a huge storm the fish are biting more than usual.

Hmm, if you pull ass all the time and you're only 22 why are you so concerned with settling down, could it be you're just trying to pawn off your highly neurotic and sensitive mangina to the next unsuspecting victim

Let's be fair, we don't know if he's really that little or not