I just got a message from my friends boyfriend on the computer

I could see if they were not appropriate or like weird and shit, but this girl contacts me as well. like i said its not often atall...maybe once every couple weeks if that?

Bingo

Its called having friends. friendships are mutual. You guys dont have friends that are chicks?

You dont hang out with other people? I think you guys are mistaking me sending comments to a non friend, or even anything remotely off track.'

I assure you guys its not like that. never was

 

she actually isnt even that g ood looking. she is just a friend...one of many. apparently this guy has had issues int he past about him geting jealous of her being friends with other guys (we arent even that good of friends). i virtually never talk to her...not sure where he is even coming from.

 

oh well

 

jeez crus, look at the kind of people here.  i have hundreds of female friends i made during my time at college.  i have one girlfriend.  at times, she gets jealous if i spend too much time with one or if one writes something that could be classified as flirty on my facebook wall, but for the most part everything is fine.  some are smokin hot, some are not.  either way, i wouldn't fuck any of them while i have a gf.  cheating is wrong, i would never want it done to me so i would never do it to my girl.  im not saying that i dont wonder how awesome it would be to bust a load in some of their faces from time to time, but thoughts and actions are completely different.

that being said, some guys are VERY insecure.  women just arent how they used to be.  there was a time when it was expected that a woman who was in a relationship would be loyal to that man and there were no ands ifs or buts about it.  however, nowadays it has become ok for girls to think with their pussies and not with their brains.  girls tend to be more promiscuous than males nowadays.  its just that they are more selfish than men.  a man could see a hot girl at a club, think about how great it would be to fuck her, but not do anything because they have a gf at home and they are loyal.  women could be out, get hit on by a man whose jacked and good looking, and all of the sudden they come up with some excuse as to why it would be ok for them to fuck this man.

its a sad truth, but pop culture nowadays makes women feel like its ok to be a person.  i hate the fact that it is now hardpressed to find a girl who has fucked less than 10 guys.  i have a little bit of that holden caufield complex that i want everyone to be pure deep down, but it just simply isnt the case nowadays.  luckily for me, my gf has about 100x as many girl friends as guy friends, so i dont really have to worry.  but if she did have a close guy friend, i may be a bit worried, because as turtle on entourage says "girl friends are just bitches you havent fucked yet"

i have an old soul, despite being just 21.  i believe in loyalty, honesty, and platonic friendships between males and females.  however, that attitude seems to be the minority in this day and age, as sad as it is to admit, it is the truth.

so go easy on the guy.  he is being ridiculous in his actions, but hes just marking his territory.  you may only want to be friends with this girl, but i garuntee that 90% of the time a girl has guy friends like u, the guy just wants to fuck her.  you are a good man, and i believe that you just want to be friends.  however, i kind of understand that he may not think that, because nowadays all anyone wants to do is fuck everyone.

 In this day and age, its a lot like that