My new girl...

I guess you don't comprehend when someone is leading someone on.

  What a Tonydan you are.

IMHO, 21year olds mostly only date douchebags

Are you really 46 years old?  Sunglasses inside, a DJ, bragging about the fact that you live in Miami?   2+2=

A real man doesn't have to brag about himself

A real man doesn't cheat on the woman he promised to be faithful to

A real man doesn't go online to brag that he is dating someone 20+ years his junior...then ask for advice about it

Real men don't use word or phrases like "playa"  and "hater"

Dude, more power to ya. Do whatever feels right. But look at it from her perspective...why would she date you when she could have someone closer to her age, probably better looking, and has probably more in common with?

When you were 21, would you date a 46 year old?  Think about that

Keep having fun for a while dude... Fuk what u can, you must have some cash or they wouldnt be coming around. That is unless you are a model, still look 30, and other assets, just cant always get girls like that with nothing.

Anyway, enjoy yourself for a while. i would probably go up a little, like in the 26 - 33 year old range. Youll get more experience, better conversation, better chance they will use protection and not trap you, by the way, (get cut) I did ! no problems and no worries ! These young girls are going to be trouble, one way or another.... Drama, too emotional, want to get married, etc.

I would try to find one that has a kid or two, is financially set and has a job. That way she is ready to play when you see her, but is busy with her own life and not asking where you are all the time.

If you are going to stay with the young ones, find one in a lesbian bar.... That way you can get two for the price of one. Plus she will also be busy with her own life...... Just thinking out loud.

And remember, dont just blame yourself if guys come on and say you cheated, etc. I am sure, she, your X was being a typical 40 something. maybe that just was not for you yet ? You should have left first, but that would be the only thing you did wrong. Mine has turned into that 40 something..... The only thing she cares about is our furniture, her hair, her nails, and her job. Body is falling apart, but as I see with so many.... As long as the cloths cover it, they dont care and compliment each other on their hair, face, nails, etc..... "What about me" ! Where di the girl who use to be so hot and sexy go ??? "She is busy shopping for more cloths  !!!!!! more nick knacks for the house, etc.... Sick of it !

Have fun bro !!!! Just dont wait too long to settle back down. You dont want to go into your 60s alone.....  Youll end up like mitchy ??? In fried green tomatos.... jessica Tandy  ! I think she was mitchy ???

Later, be-friend me..