"THE WIMP" The Tell-Tale Signs

"Wimp" in the USA is a term of denigration.  No one wants to be a wimp, nor be called one. Even if one is wimpy.  Especially if one is wimpy.

After all, one characteristic of the Wimp is that he wants the good opinion of his fellow man. 

When you are young, you speak ill of Wimps.  Youth tends to be very conformist. As you age, you tend to give a shit a lot less about the opinions of your peers.  Because you come to realize that your "peers" are almost all assholes anyway.

I've had a few good friends who are Wimps.  Still have one.  Don't like to go to beer bars or any working-class place with him to drink, for this reason:  Wimps attract bullies like flies attract shit.

They give off some kind of invisible signal to a bully, which sends the latter into attack mode. And if you're with the Wimp, you are going to experience guilt by association. 

 (Several of these bullies got a big surprise when they mistook me for a Wimp, simply because I was in the company of one.  One sidled up to me in a working class bar and said that if I didn't buy him a beer he was going to beat the shit out of me.  I handed my glasses to my Wimp friend and announced loudly to the packed bar that they would then be treated to a bout of Extreme Fighting, no holds barred. And told the bully that the first shot was his,and I'd advise him to knock me cold, because if he didn't I intended to murder him.  He laughed, said it was all a joke [ it wasn't] and slunk off)

Before stating the main characteristic of the Wimp, let me say that most Wimps, like most males in general, are NOT homosexual. (Probably only about 3 % of the male population is homosexual; definitely not the 15% that sex reseacher Kinsey opined decades ago.)

The percentage of Wimps in the heterosexual male population (by my unscientific survey) is probably around 10 to 15%. And likely the same percentage in the gay population.

The straight Wimp almost invariably shows his wimpiness by one trait:  HE LIVES WITH OR MARRIES A WOMEN AT LEAST 5 TO 10 YEARS OLDER THAN HE IS.

Or, he mates with a non-white woman.  If his wife or love interest is both older and non-Caucasian (assuming he is) it a sure bet that he is a Wimp.

Reason is that the Wimp is not aggressive,and can't make headway with a normal woman, who by training and eons of evolution wants to sit back (or lie back) and let the male take the sexual lead.

Taking a sexual lead is something the Wimp will not do. Cannot do, psychically. 

But there are women, older women, divorcees usually, who have been through the proverbial mill, had relations with all kinds of men, and who then set their bonnet for the Wimp, knowing that by being sexually aggressive with him she'll get a compliant meal ticket for life.

Of course, some of these women may well be naturally aggressive. But with many, I'd guess, their aggressiveness is a learned characteristic.

The friend that  I was in the beer bar with when the bully mistook me for a Wimp (because my friend is) is married to a Mexican women about 7 years his senior.  When I'm at his house she aggressively sits near him and kisses his face - slurps at it, actually.  He pretends she is not even there.

One other thing: this friend makes decent money, but pisses a lot of it away.  He's also an addicted gambler (mostly horses). Whether compulsive betting is  a wimp trait I don't know.

I once thought that since the word "wimp" carried such negative connotations, that a fairer and less charged word or term would be better used.

I came up with "non-aggressive male."

But after thinking about it for awhile decided no.  Because the street crowd would quickly take the first letter and acronym it into NAM.  And then to NAMBY-PAMBY.

Best to leave well enough alone.  "Wimp" has a certain history, and a certain punch.

how bored were you when you took the time to write this?

you're not a wimp dude

 

you're a FUCKTARD !!

Not much time at all.  I speed type and speed write.  And if I don't proof what I've written I can cut the time in half.

One definition of a forum is "a place where discussions of matters of public interest takes place."

NOT a place for text messaging, or items of such brevity they're as quizzacal as a text from a 13 year old.

NOT a place for the posting of porn to delight a 16 year old (even tho the average age here is not much older).

I used to write ad copy.  I know how to appeal to the masses, including the juvenile masses.

But I ain't getting paid here, so I'll write what interests me.  Until it's time to depart, end of football season.

 

Define that word

You definately are a writer LBTT, but what in the hell would make you write about this topic ? Did you get picked on in school alot or what ? Really strange "article" man. Anyway, since you are a writer and educated a little bit, you can probably decipher what a "fucktard" is. Try writing something else man, this thing was really odd.

what a clown

I'll agree with a forum being a place where discussions of matters of public interest takes place but what about this is interesting.

I would say your claim of being able to appeal to the masses including juvenile masses is greatly exaggerated as I found absolutely no appeal in this at all. I showed my 12 year old child who also thought it unappealing (although that wasn't the word used).

I demand to have my 5 minutes back.

Before stating the main characteristic of the Wimp, let me say that most Wimps, like most males in general, are NOT homosexual. (Probably only about 3 % of the male population is homosexual; definitely not the 15% that sex reseacher Kinsey opined decades ago.)

The percentage of Wimps in the heterosexual male population (by my unscientific survey) is probably around 10 to 15%. And likely the same percentage in the gay population.

I dunno, i would think any male that willingly sucks a cock, is a wimp in my book,,,,,dainty, wimpy whatever word you want to use

imo you are seriously underestimating the % of wimps these days

33% of all men are Wimps

and

100% of 's are Wimps

And as to your statement about fending off the 'bully', in my experiences, people that talk about fighting don't do much of it,,,,,i avoid fist fights all together (i'm no longer < or = 21), but the moment one begins to discuss the act of fighting, i think they are already attempting to wimp out or diffuse the situation,,,,but then again maybe that's just me.  My stamina is short lived, so when some shit goes down, i look to end it asap,,,,,so if someone were to start talking to me about kicking my ass, that's the first sign to me that they don't want any 

I kind of like his writing, I read almost every post he makes.

Some interests me, some doesnt - but I would rather read one of these threads than one of the hundreds of pick of the day threads around here.

You are quite the homophobe to state that 100% of gay people are wimps.  That is a ridiculous statement.

me too, he's sometimes longwinded but i can be too,,,,,he's an outlier for sure, and that's the only way you're going to read something different/interesting,,,,,

or you could read one of those killer threads about



van, you never posted what you thought of fooled by randomness after you finished it,,,,,

WIMP

true.  I guess it does take some balls,,,,,,to suck a dick

I don't think i'm a homophobe, it's just such a foreign concept to me, like trying to plug a square key in a round hole,,,,,i don't think i will ever comprehend how a man would pass on peach muffins for turd burgers

I havent finished it yet....  I have been sidetracked with horrendous football handicapping... 

Im going to finish it though - and when I do - Im going to start a thread -  thanks for that recommendation - I absolutely love what I have read so far....

I agree personally - but because I believe that homosexuality is a biological trait - it makes it much easier to justify.

I have never been in a fight in my life.  Not one.  Does that make me a wimp?

NO...but if you suck cock you're a wimp.

" a working class bar"? LOL you sound like a preppy idiot.Is cheers too tough for ya?

Now this is just my opinion here..........this is one well written piece of shit.  There is a compliment there though, don't think I'm being entirely negative.  Just kind of weird.

Way to many pussies in this country   

Not female box,   We need all of that we can get.    Man box is the problem......    Man pusses