only honest helpful answers here...I usually dont date much. but getting back out there...I am 38 years old and usually do the friends with benefits thing, but I want more than that now at this time in my life...Anyway, I met this girl online and we texted and talked on the phone for a week straight until we had our first date Saturday. I took her out to eat and we had a good time. When I dropped her off at her car we made out for a minute and then went our seperate ways. She then text the next morning and said hey there, I had a great time last night and your were such a gentleman but I think we should just be friends...I thought wtf,,If you just wanted to b friends the y would she make out with me? My question is, do I never speak to her again, do I text her and ask what the issue was, or do I man up and forget bout her and move on to the next one.
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only honest helpful answers here...I usually dont date much. but getting back out there...I am 38 years old and usually do the friends with benefits thing, but I want more than that now at this time in my life...Anyway, I met this girl online and we texted and talked on the phone for a week straight until we had our first date Saturday. I took her out to eat and we had a good time. When I dropped her off at her car we made out for a minute and then went our seperate ways. She then text the next morning and said hey there, I had a great time last night and your were such a gentleman but I think we should just be friends...I thought wtf,,If you just wanted to b friends the y would she make out with me? My question is, do I never speak to her again, do I text her and ask what the issue was, or do I man up and forget bout her and move on to the next one.
Text her back saying that you have enough friends in your life and you were looking for something more, clearly you don't feel the same. Nice meeting you, take care.
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Text her back saying that you have enough friends in your life and you were looking for something more, clearly you don't feel the same. Nice meeting you, take care.
thx for your replies....never got to the benefits part with this one,,,I liked her and wanted more and she was all about it to until the day after our date..Just wondering what I did wrong if anything
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thx for your replies....never got to the benefits part with this one,,,I liked her and wanted more and she was all about it to until the day after our date..Just wondering what I did wrong if anything
only honest helpful answers here...I usually dont date much. but getting back out there...I am 38 years old and usually do the friends with benefits thing, but I want more than that now at this time in my life...Anyway, I met this girl online and we texted and talked on the phone for a week straight until we had our first date Saturday. I took her out to eat and we had a good time. When I dropped her off at her car we made out for a minute and then went our seperate ways. She then text the next morning and said hey there, I had a great time last night and your were such a gentleman but I think we should just be friends...I thought wtf,,If you just wanted to b friends the y would she make out with me? My question is, do I never speak to her again, do I text her and ask what the issue was, or do I man up and forget bout her and move on to the next one.
Obviously, you move on.
I'm not breaking your balls, but one of two things happened on your date with this woman ...
a) she had no physical attraction to you
b) she thought you were boring
No big deal ... find another one
bigreds daddy
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Quote Originally Posted by tppsg:
only honest helpful answers here...I usually dont date much. but getting back out there...I am 38 years old and usually do the friends with benefits thing, but I want more than that now at this time in my life...Anyway, I met this girl online and we texted and talked on the phone for a week straight until we had our first date Saturday. I took her out to eat and we had a good time. When I dropped her off at her car we made out for a minute and then went our seperate ways. She then text the next morning and said hey there, I had a great time last night and your were such a gentleman but I think we should just be friends...I thought wtf,,If you just wanted to b friends the y would she make out with me? My question is, do I never speak to her again, do I text her and ask what the issue was, or do I man up and forget bout her and move on to the next one.
Obviously, you move on.
I'm not breaking your balls, but one of two things happened on your date with this woman ...
No offensive to your buddy, but that's phuckin hilarious. That never really occurred to me, but I can definitely see it happening to any fella.
No offense at all., he just lives near me. Complete doosh. Falls in love every week and prances around like Don Juan with pictures of internet chics that blow up his wallet.
Quality women are met in person. or let's just say women.
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Quote Originally Posted by Slobbasaurus:
No offensive to your buddy, but that's phuckin hilarious. That never really occurred to me, but I can definitely see it happening to any fella.
No offense at all., he just lives near me. Complete doosh. Falls in love every week and prances around like Don Juan with pictures of internet chics that blow up his wallet.
Quality women are met in person. or let's just say women.
While on the subject have to tell all about another dude i know. Signs up for this "special" dating match sight that actually requires you to prove that you are worth at least a million dollars. So he submits all of his documents and obviously gets hookups left right and center. Mostly strippers and ghetto chics with fake jugs and misc other skank gold diggers. Bear in mind this guy, kid you not couldn't pull any a ss in a women's prison so he advertises the fact that he's a millionaire.
He also struts around like he's the gangster of love...Absolute dingleberry.
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While on the subject have to tell all about another dude i know. Signs up for this "special" dating match sight that actually requires you to prove that you are worth at least a million dollars. So he submits all of his documents and obviously gets hookups left right and center. Mostly strippers and ghetto chics with fake jugs and misc other skank gold diggers. Bear in mind this guy, kid you not couldn't pull any a ss in a women's prison so he advertises the fact that he's a millionaire.
He also struts around like he's the gangster of love...Absolute dingleberry.
well I guess the old saying that nice guys finish last holds true. I am just an all around nice guy..guys no matter a womans age they always want the badboy behind h ole type
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well I guess the old saying that nice guys finish last holds true. I am just an all around nice guy..guys no matter a womans age they always want the badboy behind h ole type
well I guess the old saying that nice guys finish last holds true. I am just an all around nice guy..guys no matter a womans age they always want the badboy behind h ole type
Awwww, c'mon man! Don't be so hard on yourself, maybe you just need some medical "assistance". I know a place where you can get some Vashikaran black magic love potion that should work wonders. They spam up the General Discussion board nightly, so it's not hard to find.....
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Quote Originally Posted by tppsg:
well I guess the old saying that nice guys finish last holds true. I am just an all around nice guy..guys no matter a womans age they always want the badboy behind h ole type
Awwww, c'mon man! Don't be so hard on yourself, maybe you just need some medical "assistance". I know a place where you can get some Vashikaran black magic love potion that should work wonders. They spam up the General Discussion board nightly, so it's not hard to find.....
Yeh, i vote move on, and drop the last minute make out from your repertoire. Last minute make out comes off as a little juvenile, with a heavy dose of desperation. No point on even going down that road if it is stopping short of the endzone. Wait till you are home alone and make out then, (keep that in your repertoire).
And avoid internet dating sites at all costs. Good luck.
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Yeh, i vote move on, and drop the last minute make out from your repertoire. Last minute make out comes off as a little juvenile, with a heavy dose of desperation. No point on even going down that road if it is stopping short of the endzone. Wait till you are home alone and make out then, (keep that in your repertoire).
And avoid internet dating sites at all costs. Good luck.
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