Posted:
#1
... when it comes to what people think of you? Your perception of what people think of you is a big part of who you are, or who you "think" you are. Sometimes I think I know what people think of me, and other times I wonder if I'm even in the same ballpark.
I went to a meeting today and there was a woman there that nobody knew. She made a few comments and seemed different. People were rolling their eyes, making comments under their breath. After she left I think the words nuts and crazy came up about 10 times. One guy suggested that she's single because she probably has standards that are too high. It amazed me how these people felt fine with insulting her now that she was no longer present and making assumptions about her after meeting her for a total of 10 minutes. Assumptions they had no business making. I wonder what she thinks about how other people view her. How would these other people feel if she heard a recording of their bash session and it made her cry? Or better yet, what if she ripped into them and them feel about two feet tall?
How interesting would it be to hear what your best friends say about you behind closed doors? And would you want to hear it if you could?
I went to a meeting today and there was a woman there that nobody knew. She made a few comments and seemed different. People were rolling their eyes, making comments under their breath. After she left I think the words nuts and crazy came up about 10 times. One guy suggested that she's single because she probably has standards that are too high. It amazed me how these people felt fine with insulting her now that she was no longer present and making assumptions about her after meeting her for a total of 10 minutes. Assumptions they had no business making. I wonder what she thinks about how other people view her. How would these other people feel if she heard a recording of their bash session and it made her cry? Or better yet, what if she ripped into them and them feel about two feet tall?
How interesting would it be to hear what your best friends say about you behind closed doors? And would you want to hear it if you could?
0
Hot Forum Topics
