Young un' girl problems.

Hey, boys 21 year old here.  Lurker until today, love this forum you guys are awesome.

Anyways take a look at this and give me opinions.



So my girl of about a year and i took a break in September (it was my idea) to sort some things out. She was devastated at first, but eventually was okay. We were still basically a couple though, did all the couple things, went out together, slept together, kissed, messed around, etc.

So as time goes on i feel we have solved our problems and want to reconcile fully as a couple. She says she wants more time.

Well, anyways about a month ago she decides it's not a good idea for a month to sleep together anymore. So of course i'm thinking, well great there's another guy in the picture. There was...but he wasn't interested in her, lol.

So for the last month we've hung out several times and we've both had a great time each time. I've been seeing other people in the last month and have had a few dates, but i really just want to get back together with her (typical, i know...), halo effect, etc. Yeah, i've been in sociology class.

But last night we hang out, and the topic of our Valentines came up and she told me she had a date on Valentines, i told her i had two, which was true  . But that I didn't really see either going anywhere.

Anyways last night, she was all flirty, and playfully touching me, and telling me i was cute and what not. She has done this on previous occasions as well.

Typing this out, has made me feel so much better, and has again made me realize how tricksy women are.

What would you do in this situation?

take a nap - enjoy your life man- dont worry about that crap

bro dont get me started on girls

 

 

 

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I would just take a nap.

Lurker = alias

When I was your age, I had the same issues .. relax .. she is testing you  about the no sex.. believe me .. it's not always about the sex..

This is actually untrue.  I have been meaning to make an account for a while, and finally did today.

I doubt it very much. I find it hard to believe you have been "lurking" for awhile and just got your account today... then thought the first thing I should do at this Gambling site is go and tell this story?

If that's true, you're going to have a rough time around here.

Also... Not a good Idea... to address those around here as "boys"... most are not... but you will learn if in fact you have never been here before.

I'm sticking with    Lurker = Alias

But good luck to you either way.

To be honest I usually just lurk the gambling forums.

But dude, the internet is not serious business...I didn't come on here to offend anyone, i came here to discuss gambling, and get some advice from men with much more life experience than me.

If in fact you did come here to seek gambling info and life experiences from men... best to stick to the "gambling" part... because posting stories like this are sure to bring insults your way.

I'm still sticking with...

Lurker = Alias    

So much so... that I'm willing to bet $100 if we asked a MOD to check your IP address to see if in fact you have been here before... just saying.

But either way, like I said before... good luck to you. And if you ever feel like having real fun... check out the always fun... Penalty box.

eat her butt.

Seriously man. Just take a nap.

Here you go Gruzniak... your first taste of a "boy" here on covers.

Good luck       

We need to pictures of your girl before we can help

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1) Why did you initiate or suggest taking a break? When you say you had to "figure things out", what the hell does that mean? Don't give us any bullshit mumbo-jumbo either, that may work on women but not on the GD members

I would kick her to the curb. It's clear neither one of you really wants to be committed to one another. Quit fucking around and trying to re-live the past. Move on.

I gotta agree here. Anytime I ever told a chic I wanted to "take a break" it was because I wasnt really that into her and I wanted to get some new box. Sounds like this is what you did and when you Failed in your attempt to get some strange you are now trying to go back to her to get laid again. And she sounds like she is onto you and that is why she is not giving it up. My advice is leave it alone before you dig youreslf deeper in a hole with this girl and move on.

If you can be honest here, you can be honest with her.

If you are NOT honest here, you will be dealt with.

GL

Wisdom. Listen to it.

Yea really. You are talking to a bunch of dudes here who have been there and done that. I have been the king of leading girls on as long as possible in my day to continue getting the box until finally they get it and cut me off. I truly believe if a guy is really into a girl he will do the most insane shit to get that girl. I know I am really into a girl when I am willing to do just about anything for her no matter how crazy or embarrassing it may be. I will go totally out of my comfort zone for her. Sounds like maybe she does like you but she is waiting for you to do something like that to her. A girl wants to be wood off her feet. You just have to be honest with yourself and admit you dont feel like that for this girl and you arent willling to do that for her and stop leading her on. Because if you were that into her in the first place taking a break from her would never have even been a consideration.

having a gf in college is the worst imho. 

This is a brilliant post

Just don't stress over it...either make something happen or give her the boot 

So many brilliant posts!

You guys are fucking amazing, thanks for being so real.

Catch her a delicious bass.