I've been following and sometimes joining these posts for years. One thing doesn't change, Starwink arguing with anyone and everyone, I'm pretty sure he would argue with his mother. Stale is a polite way to describe him.
I've been following and sometimes joining these posts for years. One thing doesn't change, Starwink arguing with anyone and everyone, I'm pretty sure he would argue with his mother. Stale is a polite way to describe him.
Does forgiveness mean that we excuse the culprit and leave ourselves wide open to further abuse?
Not at all. First of all, forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling. I think it rather unlikely that the Lord Jesus, in his sacred yet still human heart, had tender feelings of affection for those mocking him as his life blood was being drained out on the cross. But he made a decision, expressed in a prayer: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Lk 22). In other words, there was no vindictiveness, no desire to retaliate and cause pain, suffering and destruction to those who delighted in causing him pain. Such desire for destructive vengeance is the kind of anger that is one of the seven deadly sins. Rather, Jesus prayed to the Father for their good even as they caused him harm.
Did Jesus ever experience anger against those who sought his life?Absolutely. Righteous anger is the appropriate response to injustice. It is meant to give us the emotional energy to confront that injustice and overcome it. Recall how livid Jesus was in the face of the Pharisees’ hypocrisy, because it was blocking the access of others to his life-giving truth.But notice as well that he overturned the money-changer’s tables, not theirlives.
Forgiveness does not mean being a doormat. It does not mean sitting passively by while an alcoholic or abusive family member destroys not only your life but the lives of others. But taking severe, even legal action does not require resentment and vindictiveness.Pope John Paul II did not request the release of the man who shot him. But note that he visited him in prison to offer him forgiveness and friendship. In so doing, stunned not only the assailant, but the whole world.
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