Looking for a place to share a story and I always end up back here in GD. Please take it easy on the grammar and puncuation. It is not my strong suite in the first place plus I have drank a bottle of red wine.
I dated this girl for approximately 2.5 years and we broke up in November. She was an awesome girl: attractive, intelligent, loveing, caring, she had a lot of good things going for her. The bad news was: she is always sick (migranes, flu, colds, etc...) if you name it she had it, with her medical conditions she had a hard time making a steady income. Lastly we grew apart and rarely made nookie.
So on to the reason why I am writing this. I am f$$ked up in the head. I am the one who broke up with her, however I can't get her out of my head. I have a business which I spend a lot of my time and energy on. Besides that I am having a hard time keeping busy. I am 29 and almost all of my friends are either married or living with their significant others. That is what I thought the best resource would be, hang out with guys, do guy stuff and I will feel better quicker. However, that is not an option unless I make some new friends and that is probably unlikely but you never know.
I know some of the young guys are going to say just hook up with a hot chick and you will move on. Well I have been out on a few dates since the breakup and let me tell you as I got older looks are not as important. I went out with a pretty hot blonde who probably couldn't score a 13 on the ACT. I thought she might have trouble reading off the menu. I went out with another gal who was a nurse, but has crazy hours and I think she thinks that I am better then her.
My questions for you guys (preferably you divorced guys) is what do I do? How do I get some kind of enjoyable life back? I make money, I have material things, but I want to have happiness. I just took a trip for my friends 30th which was awesome. It was a step in the right direction but now I am back to reality.
Do I need to somehow make new friends? Do I want to hang around my married friends and their significant others and children?
Any advice is much appreciated.
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Hello fellow covers brothers,
Looking for a place to share a story and I always end up back here in GD. Please take it easy on the grammar and puncuation. It is not my strong suite in the first place plus I have drank a bottle of red wine.
I dated this girl for approximately 2.5 years and we broke up in November. She was an awesome girl: attractive, intelligent, loveing, caring, she had a lot of good things going for her. The bad news was: she is always sick (migranes, flu, colds, etc...) if you name it she had it, with her medical conditions she had a hard time making a steady income. Lastly we grew apart and rarely made nookie.
So on to the reason why I am writing this. I am f$$ked up in the head. I am the one who broke up with her, however I can't get her out of my head. I have a business which I spend a lot of my time and energy on. Besides that I am having a hard time keeping busy. I am 29 and almost all of my friends are either married or living with their significant others. That is what I thought the best resource would be, hang out with guys, do guy stuff and I will feel better quicker. However, that is not an option unless I make some new friends and that is probably unlikely but you never know.
I know some of the young guys are going to say just hook up with a hot chick and you will move on. Well I have been out on a few dates since the breakup and let me tell you as I got older looks are not as important. I went out with a pretty hot blonde who probably couldn't score a 13 on the ACT. I thought she might have trouble reading off the menu. I went out with another gal who was a nurse, but has crazy hours and I think she thinks that I am better then her.
My questions for you guys (preferably you divorced guys) is what do I do? How do I get some kind of enjoyable life back? I make money, I have material things, but I want to have happiness. I just took a trip for my friends 30th which was awesome. It was a step in the right direction but now I am back to reality.
Do I need to somehow make new friends? Do I want to hang around my married friends and their significant others and children?
29 is not bad... there are alot of people in your boat that are not married or have kids...
I personally think that getting movement in your life is what you are looking for, so I wouldnt worry so much about what direction you are going but try to take a few small steps in any direction just to open some doors...
Consider what made you happy before it was the security of relationships...
For me engaging athletics both competitive and co-ed that had a social/drinking component to it worked really well to give me a networks of friends and activity...
also knowing a variety of non-commitment pick up game opportunities helps...
you are looking for something that is constant and predictable to attach to... people let us down, but groups/leagues etc transcend the human faults of individuals... once you have that then you can go in any direction in life with confidence because you have a base...
Other things that helped...
music... if you can play something or karaoke or whatever... concerts... doing that with others is good for the soul...
education... I met some interesting people when I went back to school... you will also have people with GRE scores that would find the ACT laughable.... people that are motivated and going some where (or at least trying to) ...you said you had money, so you can afford school even if it is taking classes for fun... one of the best classes I took in college was golf (for 2 credits) as it required us to attend class for 2 hours 2 times a week...
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29 is not bad... there are alot of people in your boat that are not married or have kids...
I personally think that getting movement in your life is what you are looking for, so I wouldnt worry so much about what direction you are going but try to take a few small steps in any direction just to open some doors...
Consider what made you happy before it was the security of relationships...
For me engaging athletics both competitive and co-ed that had a social/drinking component to it worked really well to give me a networks of friends and activity...
also knowing a variety of non-commitment pick up game opportunities helps...
you are looking for something that is constant and predictable to attach to... people let us down, but groups/leagues etc transcend the human faults of individuals... once you have that then you can go in any direction in life with confidence because you have a base...
Other things that helped...
music... if you can play something or karaoke or whatever... concerts... doing that with others is good for the soul...
education... I met some interesting people when I went back to school... you will also have people with GRE scores that would find the ACT laughable.... people that are motivated and going some where (or at least trying to) ...you said you had money, so you can afford school even if it is taking classes for fun... one of the best classes I took in college was golf (for 2 credits) as it required us to attend class for 2 hours 2 times a week...
[Quote: Originally Posted by Gronk8787] Still bathing your friends 8 month old you creepy box? Escort is going through some real shit and you are cracking joke you baby loving weirdo. I hope they hang you by your nuts you perverted box. I remember you talking about how your friends baby smiled when you would bathe her and splash warm water on her privates. You should kill yourself you Pedo fuck.
Listen to the the little pencil neck and dick defend the thread.
Bring up sick pedo language one more sentence and you'll be not only boxed but banned. Bath, girl, child ....again. I live in Los Angeles, 10 minutes from the airport. Meet ya there in the parking garage any fuckin time crack pipe beat nick. - bring your inbred twin brothers.
White fucking easy beatdown trash.
Sorry Maleescort. This guy clearly would like to violate you. I'll be more sensitive to your dilemma.
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[Quote: Originally Posted by Gronk8787] Still bathing your friends 8 month old you creepy box? Escort is going through some real shit and you are cracking joke you baby loving weirdo. I hope they hang you by your nuts you perverted box. I remember you talking about how your friends baby smiled when you would bathe her and splash warm water on her privates. You should kill yourself you Pedo fuck.
Listen to the the little pencil neck and dick defend the thread.
Bring up sick pedo language one more sentence and you'll be not only boxed but banned. Bath, girl, child ....again. I live in Los Angeles, 10 minutes from the airport. Meet ya there in the parking garage any fuckin time crack pipe beat nick. - bring your inbred twin brothers.
White fucking easy beatdown trash.
Sorry Maleescort. This guy clearly would like to violate you. I'll be more sensitive to your dilemma.
Did I lie about what you said in the past? Did you or did you not say you use to bathe your friends child and splash her privates with warm water? I will gladly meet your punk ass anywhere you want you lying little box. I am guessing it will have to be at least 500 yards away from an elementary school though. Meet me anywhere you want and I will make sure you never get to bathe another Child.
Let's try to keep it civil fellas
We have a fellow brother seeking advice in a time of need
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Quote Originally Posted by Gronk8787:
Did I lie about what you said in the past? Did you or did you not say you use to bathe your friends child and splash her privates with warm water? I will gladly meet your punk ass anywhere you want you lying little box. I am guessing it will have to be at least 500 yards away from an elementary school though. Meet me anywhere you want and I will make sure you never get to bathe another Child.
Let's try to keep it civil fellas
We have a fellow brother seeking advice in a time of need
NEVER did I ever phrase my post in that disgusting manner. Bathing a tiny little INFANT is part of the responsiblity of babysitting you sick disturbed scumbag.
Name the place and time. No idea what kind of fighter you're up against... Both going to the ER most likely.
Sick mind.
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Tough guy.
NEVER did I ever phrase my post in that disgusting manner. Bathing a tiny little INFANT is part of the responsiblity of babysitting you sick disturbed scumbag.
Name the place and time. No idea what kind of fighter you're up against... Both going to the ER most likely.
like someone said join some sports leagues and meet some good dudes who will go out drinking. Keg softball for example. Maybe just goto the local university and crash some courses pretending you are a student. Sit down and chat it up with some cutie while learning at the same time haha. This is pretty flawless. No one would have a clue. Just don't hand anything in. Nothing wrong with going out solo either. Makes you have to be social and meet new people. If you know how to dance goto a bar where dancing is common. That's as easy an in as there is with girls. Travel more. Play some Golf? Plentyoffish.com is worth a look. Good luck...
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like someone said join some sports leagues and meet some good dudes who will go out drinking. Keg softball for example. Maybe just goto the local university and crash some courses pretending you are a student. Sit down and chat it up with some cutie while learning at the same time haha. This is pretty flawless. No one would have a clue. Just don't hand anything in. Nothing wrong with going out solo either. Makes you have to be social and meet new people. If you know how to dance goto a bar where dancing is common. That's as easy an in as there is with girls. Travel more. Play some Golf? Plentyoffish.com is worth a look. Good luck...
I see you live in Illinois. Not sure how close you are to lincoln park or wrigleyville, but I would rent a place in that region and party my ass off. Goto a ton of cubs games and all the bars before/after in wrigleyville. Nice little party area, especially when the nice weather rolls on in. If you are a cubs fan with some money to burn do the cubs fantasy camp here in mesa arizona haha. I will definitely be doing that one day.
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I see you live in Illinois. Not sure how close you are to lincoln park or wrigleyville, but I would rent a place in that region and party my ass off. Goto a ton of cubs games and all the bars before/after in wrigleyville. Nice little party area, especially when the nice weather rolls on in. If you are a cubs fan with some money to burn do the cubs fantasy camp here in mesa arizona haha. I will definitely be doing that one day.
Lenny, fuck that piece of shit. Don't defend him - he's a roach in roach alias. I'll go to this Superbowl party in Vegas for the sole purpose of chocking this inbred down while he's still on his feet.
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Lenny, fuck that piece of shit. Don't defend him - he's a roach in roach alias. I'll go to this Superbowl party in Vegas for the sole purpose of chocking this inbred down while he's still on his feet.
Still bathing your friends 8 month old you creepy box? Escort is going through some real shit and you are cracking joke you baby loving weirdo. I hope they hang you by your nuts you perverted box. I remember you talking about how your friends baby smiled when you would bathe her and splash warm water on her privates. You should kill yourself you Pedo fuck.
Escort,it is rough shit,I went through it,nothinmg you can do to ease the pain except work on yourself and if you think you made a mistake by dumpin g her then go give it another shot. I wish you the best
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Quote Originally Posted by Gronk8787:
Still bathing your friends 8 month old you creepy box? Escort is going through some real shit and you are cracking joke you baby loving weirdo. I hope they hang you by your nuts you perverted box. I remember you talking about how your friends baby smiled when you would bathe her and splash warm water on her privates. You should kill yourself you Pedo fuck.
Escort,it is rough shit,I went through it,nothinmg you can do to ease the pain except work on yourself and if you think you made a mistake by dumpin g her then go give it another shot. I wish you the best
Looking for a place to share a story and I always end up back here in GD. Please take it easy on the grammar and puncuation. It is not my strong suite in the first place plus I have drank a bottle of red wine.
I dated this girl for approximately 2.5 years and we broke up in November. She was an awesome girl: attractive, intelligent, loveing, caring, she had a lot of good things going for her. The bad news was: she is always sick (migranes, flu, colds, etc...) if you name it she had it, with her medical conditions she had a hard time making a steady income. Lastly we grew apart and rarely made nookie.
So on to the reason why I am writing this. I am f$$ked up in the head. I am the one who broke up with her, however I can't get her out of my head. I have a business which I spend a lot of my time and energy on. Besides that I am having a hard time keeping busy. I am 29 and almost all of my friends are either married or living with their significant others. That is what I thought the best resource would be, hang out with guys, do guy stuff and I will feel better quicker. However, that is not an option unless I make some new friends and that is probably unlikely but you never know.
I know some of the young guys are going to say just hook up with a hot chick and you will move on. Well I have been out on a few dates since the breakup and let me tell you as I got older looks are not as important. I went out with a pretty hot blonde who probably couldn't score a 13 on the ACT. I thought she might have trouble reading off the menu. I went out with another gal who was a nurse, but has crazy hours and I think she thinks that I am better then her.
My questions for you guys (preferably you divorced guys) is what do I do? How do I get some kind of enjoyable life back? I make money, I have material things, but I want to have happiness. I just took a trip for my friends 30th which was awesome. It was a step in the right direction but now I am back to reality.
Do I need to somehow make new friends? Do I want to hang around my married friends and their significant others and children?
Any advice is much appreciated.
you being a male escort is going to make future relationships really tough to sustain
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Quote Originally Posted by male escort:
Hello fellow covers brothers,
Looking for a place to share a story and I always end up back here in GD. Please take it easy on the grammar and puncuation. It is not my strong suite in the first place plus I have drank a bottle of red wine.
I dated this girl for approximately 2.5 years and we broke up in November. She was an awesome girl: attractive, intelligent, loveing, caring, she had a lot of good things going for her. The bad news was: she is always sick (migranes, flu, colds, etc...) if you name it she had it, with her medical conditions she had a hard time making a steady income. Lastly we grew apart and rarely made nookie.
So on to the reason why I am writing this. I am f$$ked up in the head. I am the one who broke up with her, however I can't get her out of my head. I have a business which I spend a lot of my time and energy on. Besides that I am having a hard time keeping busy. I am 29 and almost all of my friends are either married or living with their significant others. That is what I thought the best resource would be, hang out with guys, do guy stuff and I will feel better quicker. However, that is not an option unless I make some new friends and that is probably unlikely but you never know.
I know some of the young guys are going to say just hook up with a hot chick and you will move on. Well I have been out on a few dates since the breakup and let me tell you as I got older looks are not as important. I went out with a pretty hot blonde who probably couldn't score a 13 on the ACT. I thought she might have trouble reading off the menu. I went out with another gal who was a nurse, but has crazy hours and I think she thinks that I am better then her.
My questions for you guys (preferably you divorced guys) is what do I do? How do I get some kind of enjoyable life back? I make money, I have material things, but I want to have happiness. I just took a trip for my friends 30th which was awesome. It was a step in the right direction but now I am back to reality.
Do I need to somehow make new friends? Do I want to hang around my married friends and their significant others and children?
Any advice is much appreciated.
you being a male escort is going to make future relationships really tough to sustain
Why do you keep using the word box over and over??? Tragic and sad. Repetition is always sign of thoughtless wretched blather.
Split my face.
Unfortunately I'll never have the pleasure of standing in front of you. Just be absolutely awful to watch for any casual observer.
as you all know.. I hardly ever voice my opinion on things here
but....
even though me and Iron MIke have pretty much became the best friends ever over the last week or so ....I find it hard to imagine SearchWarrant sayin those things about a child and pray it isnt true
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Quote Originally Posted by searchwarrant:
Why do you keep using the word box over and over??? Tragic and sad. Repetition is always sign of thoughtless wretched blather.
Split my face.
Unfortunately I'll never have the pleasure of standing in front of you. Just be absolutely awful to watch for any casual observer.
as you all know.. I hardly ever voice my opinion on things here
but....
even though me and Iron MIke have pretty much became the best friends ever over the last week or so ....I find it hard to imagine SearchWarrant sayin those things about a child and pray it isnt true
Iron mike was banned and ran oughta here by me in PB long ago because of the simple fact that he has never been educated beyond the 8th grade, and his mother and father shared bunkbeads in junior high.
Winbets, do not bite on this man's disgusting comments. He's not well.
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Iron mike was banned and ran oughta here by me in PB long ago because of the simple fact that he has never been educated beyond the 8th grade, and his mother and father shared bunkbeads in junior high.
Winbets, do not bite on this man's disgusting comments. He's not well.
There is a fucking thread somewhere that proves it,don't ever doubt me again Wins or I will never show up in you Box threads again. He fucking said it,he use to babysit his friends child and splash warm water on her privates where she had a rash and he took great pride in making her smile. He knows what the fuck he said,he can't even try and deny it. Ask Coldsnap to find the thread,he can find anything,then you bring your ass back here and apologize for doubting what I said.
wow if we are going to be bestest friends you cant yell at me like this in front of my acquaintances like you jsut did
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Quote Originally Posted by Gronk8787:
There is a fucking thread somewhere that proves it,don't ever doubt me again Wins or I will never show up in you Box threads again. He fucking said it,he use to babysit his friends child and splash warm water on her privates where she had a rash and he took great pride in making her smile. He knows what the fuck he said,he can't even try and deny it. Ask Coldsnap to find the thread,he can find anything,then you bring your ass back here and apologize for doubting what I said.
wow if we are going to be bestest friends you cant yell at me like this in front of my acquaintances like you jsut did
I notice you are not denying the fact that you said that you took pleasure in making the infant smile by splashing warm water on her privates when she had a rash and you gave her a bath. What grown man who is not a Pedo requests to babysit his friends 8month old child? There was a big thread about it in the Box a few years ago, You know what you said.
I swear if I found out Search said this I will not feel the same about covers.com ever again . The man has 50 thousand posts and been here since 2003.. if u cant trust a man with those credentials then you cant trust anyone
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Quote Originally Posted by Gronk8787:
I notice you are not denying the fact that you said that you took pleasure in making the infant smile by splashing warm water on her privates when she had a rash and you gave her a bath. What grown man who is not a Pedo requests to babysit his friends 8month old child? There was a big thread about it in the Box a few years ago, You know what you said.
I swear if I found out Search said this I will not feel the same about covers.com ever again . The man has 50 thousand posts and been here since 2003.. if u cant trust a man with those credentials then you cant trust anyone
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