Okay, while people are asking for advice with the Laydees! Ill ask about my "dilemma"

Good point. Im going to pass by her desk tomorrow ask how her weekend was. If there isnt anyone around Ill ask about a future date If not I will casually ask if shes working OT and I will call her one night this week and see about a future date

I ask about the OT to gauge how late she will be at work

You seem like a nice dude; but to be honest, that will be your downfall. As others have mentioned, you seem like you're quickly slipping into the friend zone. You need to take your balls out of your purse and show this broad that YOU are the man.

I'm not telling you to be a jackass. I'm telling you, that as a man, you're allowed to want to pound some nice young box. Don't hide it, somewhere deep down, she knows that's what you're thinking anyways. But she can deflect it by putting you in the friend zone and then you won't be able to hit it because she won't want to ruin your friendship.

As a general rule of thumb, it's easier to get out of a hole if you go too far than to climb out of the friend zone. What I mean is: make your intentions known! If she gets awkward or rejects you or whatever, you can always plead the honesty card and tell her that she's a babe and you can't help but notice her around the office strutting her stuff.

I'll leave it up to you on how to let her know that you wanna munch her rug, but once she knows it. You have to flip the switch and act like you have too many broads on the go to make time for her, or that although you think she's hot, you need 'more' to be truly interested. Start putting HER in the friend zone (seriously yo, works like fucking magic). Say things how she's your second favourite in the office... or that she's like a little sister that you've never had but always wanted. You should be good at this if you just take all the shitty games girls played on you and play it on them.

Again, I'm not saying be a jackass but there is a fine line between bossing it and just being a dick. Remember, you are a man, you are in control... YOU ARE A BOSS.

Say things like* how she's your second favourite in the office...

A few lines that exemplify the attitude you need to have:

- Looking good (insert name), I'm glad we have that in common!
- Wow, you have gorgeous hair... Maybe I can pull it sometime!?
- I think you're going to have to forgive Santa for not putting me under your tree... I was busy!
- Wanna do breakfast tomorrow? I have some leftover bacon at my place.
- I've recently gone professional in cuddling so I can't really go back to an amateur like yourself... unless.... I guess I could go pro bono?

Of course, you have to be careful with some of these as you don't want to come off creepy... but like I said in my previous post, it's better to push the boundaries and fix anything after. A final note, these lines should be treated more as guidelines on how to craft your own because your lines have to suit your personality or they will come off cheesy... and nothing beats lines that match the situation so that a girl can't say "how many girls have you used that one on?".

One good example: I was at this new resto-bar type place and this smokeshow was working there. She was reaching down to grab some ice so I let "nice chest" slip out and she immediately popped up with a dirty look excusing me but I quickly replied "the ice chest.... it's really nice" and she kind of gave me an evil glare. A lot of guys would have stopped there but not I.

Later on, she brought out some food that was already packed up and so I asked "is that takeout?" to which she gave me a puzzled look before saying yes... I corrected her "NO, can I take YOU out?". She simply laughs and turns away.

I finally end it with "your guns are sweet" while she's pouring a pop but she finishes it this time by saying "you mean the pop guns.. don't you?" and I say "NO, I was talking about your tits!". She starts howling while every other Joe at the bar is looking at me like I'm the biggest bad ass ever. Needless to say we started talking and when I went to pay my bill, I asked her if she wanted my number in lieu of a tip... She offered her number instead and that I still tip her, which was obviously a perfect deal. Smashed her a week later and haven't talked to her since... mainly because her boyfriend is big and black.

Every person and situation is different... the key is to know what works for you. Keep in mind that what works for one person doesn't mean it will work for you. Each person is unique in appearance-personality-etc. And listening to most of the people on here is a one way ticket to the alone house.

I always just recommend being yourself.... I don't understand anyone who tries to pretend to me anything other than that. Some people will like you and some will not. The key is to recognize if they don't and to move on...its not the end of the world.

Women know pretty quick if they are sexually interested in a man. Things such as playing with their hair and looking you in the eye are good positive signs that they are interested.

If your interested in her... ask her out again... if she is interested she will say yes...if she isn't she will say no.  No matter what you will know and will be able to move on accordingly

dj, beware of giant boyfriends

look njdevils,  fact is youre not gonna make it on looks so either be the coolest dude out there or go djdestroyer on her with confidence.

if #1 then let her know your feelings and if all she wants is friends do that til shes hammered one night and slap the man mayo on her
if #2 those are good lines dj is spiittin

This is good stuff... but throw a little djdestroyer at her as well. 

You did not do the right thing.

Why do I love girls with boyfriends?

Just dropped this beauty: "If only you were as single as you are hot.."

Id like to keep my job if I would have been turned down so I will not be using any of those lines DJ

Talked her up today. She is doing a ton of OT next few weeks so I just let her know that if she wasnt busy Id like to take her out again. Seemed open to it and we will figure it out after the holiday

I was happy with the result. she knows I "like" her Im not resorting to any silliness. I liked Spartys answer

DR J i will disgaree with the looks comment ..im not a f'n male model but im not a f'n troll either

Got a question...Do you expect a response from every text?  I saw her all week and it was fine everytime. Just general and work conversation so we didnt text or anything but I did send a text today  just a quick Happy New Year deal but didnt see a response

Bro, you're already in the friend zone. If you're not willing to spit game with girls you work with for fear of screwing up your job, then go for other girls outside your place of employment. But with any girl, you're going to have to be a bit risky and a bit frisky. If she takes it the wrong way, then just be honest and let her know you just think she's hot and was playing around.

Ill step it up this week. if it works it works if not oh well