Just broke up with my girl a couple weeks ago. SO I just recently signed up to match.com. I was wondering if anyone had any success on dating sites. About a year or two ago there was a thread similar to this and it was pretty funny. SO far I have sent out like 60 emails and no replies
.. I know i am not an ugly guy. It's funny how I am getting no responses. So far I have had e mails from 5 girls all overweight
. Any stories guys?
Was on Match at the end of 09 and met 2 women on their, first one a acct. mgr making 50k a year and flat broke paying 600 a month for a infinti Q2 I think, She is black and spends 200 every 2 weeks on extensions.. Now she gave it up within 48hrs and was good but didn't like to be on top.. She just needs to get her shit together and realize she's not 19 anymore.. She was 31... Ended it with her after meeting # 2..
#2 lives 3 hrs away and we talked for abt a week online and the phone, she decided to drive up and see me(she works for the gov. and ran a background check on me first..lol) She gave it up with in the hour, and was the bomb in bed...Everything you can imagine she was willing and able.. She does have 2 kids and me 3, thats alot.. She invites me to Vegas 2 weeks ago because she has some training for 3 days and its all paid for.. So first nite we just do some catching up since we hadn't seen each other in 2 weeks.. 2nd nite were at Rain and some of her friends from home are their and they want to go get married.. OK whatever and once were their all hell breaks loose, she asks me to marry her and if I do she can move to where I am and all this crap, talk about getting sober quick.. I say no,no,no,no and no... Know back at are room she is flippin and says thats why she invited her friends!!! She planned the whole thing.. I flipped out went to bed and when she left for her class took th gov. money and bought a ticket home and left her in Vegas and haven't talked to her since..
Will be signing back up here sometime this week, might just use it to hook up because both times were easy but crazies are lurkin on their..
sorry for all the typing errors..
Was on Match at the end of 09 and met 2 women on their, first one a acct. mgr making 50k a year and flat broke paying 600 a month for a infinti Q2 I think, She is black and spends 200 every 2 weeks on extensions.. Now she gave it up within 48hrs and was good but didn't like to be on top.. She just needs to get her shit together and realize she's not 19 anymore.. She was 31... Ended it with her after meeting # 2..
#2 lives 3 hrs away and we talked for abt a week online and the phone, she decided to drive up and see me(she works for the gov. and ran a background check on me first..lol) She gave it up with in the hour, and was the bomb in bed...Everything you can imagine she was willing and able.. She does have 2 kids and me 3, thats alot.. She invites me to Vegas 2 weeks ago because she has some training for 3 days and its all paid for.. So first nite we just do some catching up since we hadn't seen each other in 2 weeks.. 2nd nite were at Rain and some of her friends from home are their and they want to go get married.. OK whatever and once were their all hell breaks loose, she asks me to marry her and if I do she can move to where I am and all this crap, talk about getting sober quick.. I say no,no,no,no and no... Know back at are room she is flippin and says thats why she invited her friends!!! She planned the whole thing.. I flipped out went to bed and when she left for her class took th gov. money and bought a ticket home and left her in Vegas and haven't talked to her since..
Will be signing back up here sometime this week, might just use it to hook up because both times were easy but crazies are lurkin on their..
sorry for all the typing errors..
My current gal and me met on match 8 years ago. I went out with 3 people from there. The first was heavier then I expected and really a goody2shoes....not really comfortable in a social situation. It was a little awkward, but I talk to people all day long...I can carry on the conversation for a few hours.
2nd one was an HR Manager for BWW. She was a monster. Huge sports fan which was great...we went out to watch a game and have a few drinks. She was embarassing as to how loud and obnoxious she was. She apologized, but she was a HUGE Gopher fan. We e-mailed a couple of times....and about 3 weeks later, she calls me and asks if I want to go out. I had just started seeing someone so I used that as an excuse. She said she just wanted to be friends. I didn't have the heart to tell her the only reason I'd even consider going out with her again is if she was willing to sleep with me that night.
Then there is my current gal. Director of Accounting. Completely professional. Funny. Outgoing. She was just tired of the BS bar scene and being set up by her friends (as was I).
There are a lot of loonies out there, but there are plenty of regular people just trying to meet others people. I have one gal I know who is married to a guy she met on match.
I was just tired of spending a night out just trying to meet someone. It's time consuming.
In todays world there are 3 things that women look for;
1. Looks
2. Money
3. Money
There is a 4th trait that women look for too, most, if not all, men who have girlfriends fall into this 4th trait; This 4th trait just means you are temporary (unless she is ugly or fat). This 4th trait will get you sex, but just know that if something better comes along, you are gone.
4. They settle
Just find one that is willing to settle with you if you don't have the other 2 traits.
But if you want the best of the best; Start making money, start working out.
But if you want the best of the best; Start making money, start working out.
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When I was at my GF's Christmas party last December, I counted no less then 5 guys who were over-weight and not particularly good looking....who had WAY out kicked their coverage from a wife standpoint. They were hot. I'm like WTF do these guys haves? They were nice enough. None of them rich (in fact, in 2 or 3 cases, the woman probably made more money....just a guess based on what they did).
Your generalized statement is so far off the mark.
Maybe that's because I'm 42 and you realize as you get into your 30's that there is more to a gal then just being hot.
Was on Match at the end of 09 and met 2 women on their, first one a acct. mgr making 50k a year and flat broke paying 600 a month for a infinti Q2 I think, She is black and spends 200 every 2 weeks on extensions.. Now she gave it up within 48hrs and was good but didn't like to be on top.. She just needs to get her shit together and realize she's not 19 anymore.. She was 31... Ended it with her after meeting # 2..
#2 lives 3 hrs away and we talked for abt a week online and the phone, she decided to drive up and see me(she works for the gov. and ran a background check on me first..lol) She gave it up with in the hour, and was the bomb in bed...Everything you can imagine she was willing and able.. She does have 2 kids and me 3, thats alot.. She invites me to Vegas 2 weeks ago because she has some training for 3 days and its all paid for.. So first nite we just do some catching up since we hadn't seen each other in 2 weeks.. 2nd nite were at Rain and some of her friends from home are their and they want to go get married.. OK whatever and once were their all hell breaks loose, she asks me to marry her and if I do she can move to where I am and all this crap, talk about getting sober quick.. I say no,no,no,no and no... Know back at are room she is flippin and says thats why she invited her friends!!! She planned the whole thing.. I flipped out went to bed and when she left for her class took th gov. money and bought a ticket home and left her in Vegas and haven't talked to her since..
Will be signing back up here sometime this week, might just use it to hook up because both times were easy but crazies are lurkin on their..
sorry for all the typing errors..
from 2000-2002 I lurked in some local AOL chatrooms and telephone chatlines. I met 3 or 4 women over that time that would let me come over and bone them in the mouth. I made it clear that I didnt want sex, juts to fuck their faces. I was in med school and thats all I wanted to do, to tired and busy for other shit lol. All of these chicks had no problems with it. Must have fucked those 4 faces 300ish times over those 2+ years.
from 2000-2002 I lurked in some local AOL chatrooms and telephone chatlines. I met 3 or 4 women over that time that would let me come over and bone them in the mouth. I made it clear that I didnt want sex, juts to fuck their faces. I was in med school and thats all I wanted to do, to tired and busy for other shit lol. All of these chicks had no problems with it. Must have fucked those 4 faces 300ish times over those 2+ years.
LMAO
But if you want the best of the best; Start making money, start working out.
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When I was at my GF's Christmas party last December, I counted no less then 5 guys who were over-weight and not particularly good looking....who had WAY out kicked their coverage from a wife standpoint. They were hot. I'm like WTF do these guys haves? They were nice enough. None of them rich (in fact, in 2 or 3 cases, the woman probably made more money....just a guess based on what they did).
Your generalized statement is so far off the mark.
Maybe that's because I'm 42 and you realize as you get into your 30's that there is more to a gal then just being hot.
I don't think you read my whole post. Those guys you just mentioned. Will all be replaced in a heartbeat if the better guy came along. In a heartbeat.
In todays world there are 3 things that women look for;
1. Looks
2. Money
3. Money
There is a 4th trait that women look for too, most, if not all, men who have girlfriends fall into this 4th trait; This 4th trait just means you are temporary (unless she is ugly or fat). This 4th trait will get you sex, but just know that if something better comes along, you are gone.
4. They settle
Just find one that is willing to settle with you if you don't have the other 2 traits.
But if you want the best of the best; Start making money, start working out.
I concur...
Just put your current matchbook balance out there, updated daily
Established in 1995,
...not so much pre match
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