My guess is that you have had the opportunity to have sex but maybe didn't do it because you are scared, which is fine. I'm not saying you had a girl laying naked in your bed begging for it, but my guess is if you played your cards right it most likely would have happen.
There are plenty of girls who want the guy they are with to wait until marriage, you just won't find most of them at college. My advice to you in to lower your standards alittle, and try to get with a girl who has low self esteem.
If you want it that bad, just go for it and don't worry how good are bad you are. When you are in there, whatever you do you need to think of something else to last longer. if you think "omg im banging a chick, you will last like 10 seconds."
If it didn't go well, just tell the girl its been like a year since you did it with your last girlfriend or some BS....or get a chick you will never see again and just get in and get out, or get an escort or something.
"need to think of something else to last longer" ... that's some funny sh*t ... very true in the beginning tho ...
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Quote Originally Posted by earthWake:
My guess is that you have had the opportunity to have sex but maybe didn't do it because you are scared, which is fine. I'm not saying you had a girl laying naked in your bed begging for it, but my guess is if you played your cards right it most likely would have happen.
There are plenty of girls who want the guy they are with to wait until marriage, you just won't find most of them at college. My advice to you in to lower your standards alittle, and try to get with a girl who has low self esteem.
If you want it that bad, just go for it and don't worry how good are bad you are. When you are in there, whatever you do you need to think of something else to last longer. if you think "omg im banging a chick, you will last like 10 seconds."
If it didn't go well, just tell the girl its been like a year since you did it with your last girlfriend or some BS....or get a chick you will never see again and just get in and get out, or get an escort or something.
"need to think of something else to last longer" ... that's some funny sh*t ... very true in the beginning tho ...
We all had girlfriends at one time or another . They were average in looks.
He never may much of an attempt to chase any of them .
I could tell he was a little uneasy but he was a good friend so we never laid into him to much about it.
We all knew he wasnt happy because he loved looking at women way to much .
He always had his sites on something better,and that we did kid him about I guess.
Well after a few years wekind of lost touch of each other and I heard he started hitting the nightclubs on a regular basis.
What he found was stunning. But these stunning women came at a price.
Hes now divorced a few times . Lots of heartache I was told.
But he got what he wanted. Just took awhile.and I guess a lot of leg work.
Moral is - go to some pick up joints and dress decent. ,Buy a few drinks and have one yourself to take off the edge. Dont be afraid to talk to them. Are you into fitness? Great place to meet the right girl.
Good Luck,youll be fine
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You remind me of a good friend I grew up with.
We all had girlfriends at one time or another . They were average in looks.
He never may much of an attempt to chase any of them .
I could tell he was a little uneasy but he was a good friend so we never laid into him to much about it.
We all knew he wasnt happy because he loved looking at women way to much .
He always had his sites on something better,and that we did kid him about I guess.
Well after a few years wekind of lost touch of each other and I heard he started hitting the nightclubs on a regular basis.
What he found was stunning. But these stunning women came at a price.
Hes now divorced a few times . Lots of heartache I was told.
But he got what he wanted. Just took awhile.and I guess a lot of leg work.
Moral is - go to some pick up joints and dress decent. ,Buy a few drinks and have one yourself to take off the edge. Dont be afraid to talk to them. Are you into fitness? Great place to meet the right girl.
This probably isn't the place to bring this up but I'm hoping for honest opinions and advice. Plus I ddon't know anyone of you personally so I can't be made fun of it for it but I'm a virgin. I'm 23 yrs old, graduated college, and I'm still a virgin... not by choice either, just have a hard time around girls. Is that bad? Ppl tell me they lost it ar like 15 or 16 and Im just like umm ya, me too. Anyone else ever this old before they had sex? I feel like I may die a virgin and it scares me.. laugh all you want, whatever. It really bothers me though.. any help? Thanks
Screw these people that tell you to get a hooker. I don't care if you look like the Hunchback of Norte Dame. All of us think if only...when they were young. I was lucky, I was so shy I could barely speak to a girl but because I was born with looks girls asked me out.
#1 fear you must overcome is to go up to any girl anywhere and just introduce yourself. Just say something nice like you caught my attention and just ask to have coffee or something. Just be nice and you will find one but you must make the first move. Most idiots think the hot chicks are stuck up because they sit alone...etc. Its because they are also just as shy. If you can make a girl laugh you will get laid, plus be a gentleman. Open doors, pay for meals and never take a 2 for 1 coupon on your first date.
GL
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Quote Originally Posted by iowastatebaby:
This probably isn't the place to bring this up but I'm hoping for honest opinions and advice. Plus I ddon't know anyone of you personally so I can't be made fun of it for it but I'm a virgin. I'm 23 yrs old, graduated college, and I'm still a virgin... not by choice either, just have a hard time around girls. Is that bad? Ppl tell me they lost it ar like 15 or 16 and Im just like umm ya, me too. Anyone else ever this old before they had sex? I feel like I may die a virgin and it scares me.. laugh all you want, whatever. It really bothers me though.. any help? Thanks
Screw these people that tell you to get a hooker. I don't care if you look like the Hunchback of Norte Dame. All of us think if only...when they were young. I was lucky, I was so shy I could barely speak to a girl but because I was born with looks girls asked me out.
#1 fear you must overcome is to go up to any girl anywhere and just introduce yourself. Just say something nice like you caught my attention and just ask to have coffee or something. Just be nice and you will find one but you must make the first move. Most idiots think the hot chicks are stuck up because they sit alone...etc. Its because they are also just as shy. If you can make a girl laugh you will get laid, plus be a gentleman. Open doors, pay for meals and never take a 2 for 1 coupon on your first date.
Want to add the bar scene is fine. In my twenty's I used to go almost every night. When your drunk you get brave. I slept with more girls than I can remember but it meant nothing. Have sex leave in the morning and try to remember things. I never dated just bar hopped. When you get older is when you learn to talk to them. I wish that I could do it all over but do what I say not what I have done...lol.
Have confidence in yourself, make the first move and you will be fine. I bet (soon) you will have it for the first time. Be honest with the girl and I bet she will like you more. Plus the fact you probably shoot your wad the second she touches the GILA. Average to larger Gila's help. Very small Gila and maybe you should listen to the others.
My first time in high school it was two jerks and a squirt. I was so embarrassed but the girl understood. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE HONEST. Girls are just as afraid as you are.
I should write a book, screw Dr Phil, it will be Dr Kursh.
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Want to add the bar scene is fine. In my twenty's I used to go almost every night. When your drunk you get brave. I slept with more girls than I can remember but it meant nothing. Have sex leave in the morning and try to remember things. I never dated just bar hopped. When you get older is when you learn to talk to them. I wish that I could do it all over but do what I say not what I have done...lol.
Have confidence in yourself, make the first move and you will be fine. I bet (soon) you will have it for the first time. Be honest with the girl and I bet she will like you more. Plus the fact you probably shoot your wad the second she touches the GILA. Average to larger Gila's help. Very small Gila and maybe you should listen to the others.
My first time in high school it was two jerks and a squirt. I was so embarrassed but the girl understood. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE HONEST. Girls are just as afraid as you are.
I should write a book, screw Dr Phil, it will be Dr Kursh.
sell your virginity on Ebay like some chick did a few years back..
That girl is back again. She turned down 750k from a rich Asian that only wanted to shoot load on her face. At least that's what I read. Rich people get freaky. Probably had a two inch GILA.
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Quote Originally Posted by joepa510:
sell your virginity on Ebay like some chick did a few years back..
That girl is back again. She turned down 750k from a rich Asian that only wanted to shoot load on her face. At least that's what I read. Rich people get freaky. Probably had a two inch GILA.
if you end up meeting a gal and things progress to where you think you have a good chance of getting laid that night make sure you jerk it at least twice that day so you don't cream your pants while she is unzipping your fly
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if you end up meeting a gal and things progress to where you think you have a good chance of getting laid that night make sure you jerk it at least twice that day so you don't cream your pants while she is unzipping your fly
Don't put pressure on yourself but find a cool girlfriend as soon as you can. You're missing out on a lot of fun. Sex is a magical thing. Nothing like it. Don't overthink it. If you can get a girl to laugh, she'll start thinking about taking her panties off. Just be yourself and then you'll know if she really likes YOU. You'll find her when you least expect it. The key is to ALWAYS keep your eyes looking. Every time you leave your apartment is an opportunity to find her.
GL
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Don't put pressure on yourself but find a cool girlfriend as soon as you can. You're missing out on a lot of fun. Sex is a magical thing. Nothing like it. Don't overthink it. If you can get a girl to laugh, she'll start thinking about taking her panties off. Just be yourself and then you'll know if she really likes YOU. You'll find her when you least expect it. The key is to ALWAYS keep your eyes looking. Every time you leave your apartment is an opportunity to find her.
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