Gambling can be a silent addiction and We all have down years but at your age with your commits I would strongly suggest to just turn away from sports and take that energy and work overtime to provide for your family. Don't follow sports change your passwords to Gambling site to just crazy numbers and letters and don't write it down. It isn't about winning or losing for you at this time and you are never going to win back the money you lost so stop now! Throw yourself into being a good Father and husband. Work your ass off it will be very difficult at first but in a couple of months you will look back and see all thr stress you were walking around with as well as the time you wasted. Don't fall for the play less games and bet less bullshit. Just enjoy life again like you did before Gambling. I would also add, don't go to GA. Go to AA even if you don't have a drinking problem. It is the same type of addictive behaviors and you will meet some cool people and do different activities. They talk about your life becoming unmanageable and it is the first bet, or drink that leads to you doing the samething over again. Good Luck and God Bless