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Accidentally let the boxer out the front door 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by searchwarrant:

A little over a month isn't enough time for her to be setting deal breaking rules on your decision making process with her dogs.

These types tend to be very clingy, needy, fearful of being alone and highly emotional. I would tell her that the relationship needs to evolve a bit more before you make this kind of manuever to house her children - I mean dogs.

Single women that have TWO dogs are to be observed carefully. They typically have very intense obsession with their animals because they humanize them.


Bingo.  

And are they not potty trained because they are that young or because she is a crap owner?  If it's because she is a crap owner, I'd run for the hills.  If it's because they are young, take some time to see how she is with them.  For me, pets aren't a big deal.  Pets that don't behave and destroy your property ARE a big deal.  You need time to figure it out. 


 
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Sounds like there's plenty of other non dog lovers that are on my side.

At her apartment, the one dog runs all over the place. From couch to couch especially. The other minds it's own business (smaller, older one) i'm trying not to think too much about it, and kinda letting it be forgotten but it needs to be addressed at some point. It may sound bad, but I appreciate coming home to my clean, pet free house with no roommates. Sleeping with another person on a much more consistant basis is something i'm needing to get used to!

Maybe I'm blowing it out of proportion, I enjoy spending time with her alot! And of the girls I've dated, she seems to be the best one thus far so I want to try and make things work...but her dogs seem to be a deal breaker for both of us.

 
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Dog lovers are dog lovers for life.

Unless you can train her boxer and fix this asap, my best recommendation is to have an exit strategy.  Girls are a dime a dozen and I'm guessing you're relatively still young. Enjoy the next two weeks, have sex as much as you can and then break up with her stating that you can deal with the dogs. Key is that when the dogs f up, you give her a short stare or pause and brush it off, so when you do end it, it's like you've had it. 

I love dogs, but what she is doing isn't cool. She can't control her dogs and at the end of the day they are dogs, not kids. She needs to respect your home, belongings, etc. If she doesn't, she's not a keeper.
 
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it will be u leaving before the dogs i promise u.  if im wrong then marry her.
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Beagles live a long time,I don't know about hyper Boxers,but I'll bet there are problems as they get older.

Think about what this babe did before she met you- She had one dog that she halfway controlled so she got another "child" that she doesn't control at all and needs YOU to love the 3 of them.         What if she jumped from chairs and sofas and pissed in the corner? Love me love my dog? That's tooooo easy!

Grasshopper has p*ssy 3times a week clouded your vision and your reason? If muttchildren are a dealbreaker then this deal is broke. Toss this fish back and hope she isn't the stalking kind.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by 666LES:

Beagles live a long time,I don't know about hyper Boxers,but I'll bet there are problems as they get older.

Think about what this babe did before she met you- She had one dog that she halfway controlled so she got another "child" that she doesn't control at all and needs YOU to love the 3 of them.         What if she jumped from chairs and sofas and pissed in the corner? Love me love my dog? That's tooooo easy!

Grasshopper has p*ssy 3times a week clouded your vision and your reason? If muttchildren are a dealbreaker then this deal is broke. Toss this fish back and hope she isn't the stalking kind.



I agree buddy. Cant let the box and head cloud your decision making.
 
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666 - I agree, but she's not asking me to LOVE her dogs. Since we've been dating the dogs have stayed at her apartment...kept them away from me. I've been around them maybe 2% of the time. Now her first "compromise" was her buying kennels and her having the option to bring them over when she'd come and stay.

I still want my house to be my house dog free. I was thinking about  staying at her place once a week in exchange for her keeping the dogs away from my place. Though I probably won't get much sleep with 4 "bodies" on a queen sized bed, keep in mind I'm 6'4.

I'm starting to think feeding chocolate to the dogs is the best bet haha jk

 
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EASY call.......https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qjPBMAmNH14

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this thread has potential


 
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Got to have "a talk" after work yesterday

She's actually thought about giving up the one dog a few times, but the end conclusion was no, because if she did, and we stopped seeing each other after a few months, she'd feel regret. After talking, I have a better understanding of everything, not just the dogs, but our relationship.

Nothing was really solved about the dogs, but we ended up going to her place after mine to feed the dogs. No surprise to me, 2 piles of dog crap, and random wet pee spots around the apartment.

 
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It's simple. 

If the dogs don't get trained you will be miserable. 

Options
1) dogs get trained and give it some time
2) end things

Otherwise you will be living in a dump smelling like feces and stale pee. Not to mention ripped and chewed valuables. 

GL!
 
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 I love dogs............she's doing them no favors keeping them in an apartment in kennels..........wtf is THAT?

 I'd say this gal has an emotional screw loose.......stand your ground as far as keeping them away from your house. Once they get moved in with you THEY will be the object of her affections, not you...........you'll just be giving them a new home.
 
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Before you dump her, make sure you try @nal with her and all the nasty sh*t ... THEN dump her.  
 
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Gimme-I love to tell guys who to date but like a couple guys have said She seems somewhat irresponsable that the dogs aren't trained and the dogs are really innocent. Again how do you train a dog not to go to the bathroom if he's locked up in an apartment/crate for 5-6 hours? We had a Jack Russell that would sometimes squirt if I came home late and without saying a word the dog felt bad and sulked when it happened so I'm feeling for these dogs. The babe is probably hot but I'm feeling like these 2 dogs are like kids in a divorce. GL points.
 
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I've never once in my life met a boxer that wasn't a complete spaztic. They do two things.

1. Try to run away.

2. Try to run away.

 
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Good points made by all

The one Beagle is trained, and does fairly well. The boxer isn't trained and she's thought about it, but she wants to try and train her herself, rather than pay the $$$$. And she says when she's hanging out with me at my place, she doesn't have time to train the dogs. So I already see what's happening, she gets a couple kennals at my place, and instead of us spending all the time together, I've now become part time dog trainer. And my backyard is the training facility.

Search hit it on the head again, the boxer is spaztic. Not to mention it just learned how to drink from the toilet

 
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Quote Originally Posted by gimmedempoints:

Good points made by all

The one Beagle is trained, and does fairly well. The boxer isn't trained and she's thought about it, but she wants to try and train her herself, rather than pay the $$$$. And she says when she's hanging out with me at my place, she doesn't have time to train the dogs. So I already see what's happening, she gets a couple kennals at my place, and instead of us spending all the time together, I've now become part time dog trainer. And my backyard is the training facility.

Search hit it on the head again, the boxer is spaztic. Not to mention it just learned how to drink from the toilet


One option IF you are up for it......try and do this together.  It's an activity....much like taking a bike ride or whatever.  Give her the old, "hey, I'd like to do this with you, but you need to take the lead and lay out a plan."  You'll find out rather quickly how serious she is.  

Walking the dogs is a good gig as well.  My (ex) gal used to dog sit for a couple of people and we always figured out a way to get out together and walk them.  Good way to spend time together and also get out of the house (not to mention tire out the pooches).  


 
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Miss delicious , titts big , twin nipples fer nibblin
Blissful things her kitten's my mistress
And finishin' on her chin is Christmas
But the stink and vision of " Miffy " shittin' in the kitchen's ridiculous
You can have the dog neutered but how bout cuttin' the behind out?
Foul bowels found around the house
You can handle that?
You fuckkin sure?
" Muffy " just took a dump on the rug ya love manure?
What the fucck is it a puppy or a horse?
You seen the size of that log?
Like a size 9 brown loafer
Throw her our the home now yo it's over.......
BACK PATTING and KISSING threads are like passing HAM SANDWICHES around over and over-wall
 
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Quote Originally Posted by TheGoldenGoose:


It's a known fact that women who own small dog/dogs are sexual animals in bed.  You hit the jackpot pal, quit complaining.

 
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Couple of things-
1) Vet DM ( probably a vet) gave you good advice and get the dogs trained. SW is dead on about the Boxer but you will have to get him as good as he can be. Maybe you can compromise and she keeps the Beagle and gets rid of the Boxer?  But there is a bigger issue here and the guys that are married for a long time can comment on it.
2) This girl sounds cool. She really does. She is leaving her dogs at home alone with no one around to bang your a s s. That is a gift to you.  Appreciate it.  She is coming home to all that dog sh it and other destruction, so you can get your rocks off. Appreciate it.  She has stated she is thinking about getting rid of the dogs, so she can accept change and compromise and that is the start. She did not ask to move them into the house, she offered to keep them on the porch. Wow- BFD.
3) The question for this and the rest of your life is this- Are you ready for something ( your marriage /relationship) to be bigger than you.  You are worried about a clean house and this and that, boxers are bad but cannot touch two year olds. I still have s h i t in the back of my suv, that is part milk/cheerios and crayon that has been backed in the sun, that will never come out. Who gives a f u ck . I have two great kids and a wife who loves me, a little mess is nothing. They are bigger than me and my tidiness, that is the answer, right there.  If you like this girl ( and your post hints that you do) talk it out, get some dog lessons, get some kennels, take em for walks and embrace the situation, SHE IS A PACKAGE DEAL AS ARE ALL WOMEN AND THE DOGS ARE JUST PART OF THE PACKAGE. Get over it.


 
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oh yea and btw, dogs love antifreeze more than chocolate, just an fyi
 
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Just an update...we've been hanging out quite a bit more, like 4 outta 5 days it seems and that's not usual for me when i'm dating. Normally it's a date 2-3 times a week. After hanging last night, she asked me to stay at her place. I just couldn't do it, I work a full day m-f and it'd be us, and two dogs on a queen sized bed. I would have gotten zero sleep.

I get the feeling maybe we're spending too much time together, but that's besides the point. I like my alone time to hit the golf course, watch the game with buds or myself, get garbage done around the house, or just sit on the couch and do nothing. Now today she needs to watch a chick flick tv show (she doesnt have cable) and wants to come over and watch it.

It's like I need a vacation time to have some "me" time.

 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by spockgato:

Miss delicious , titts big , twin nipples fer nibblin
Blissful things her kitten's my mistress
And finishin' on her chin is Christmas
But the stink and vision of " Miffy " shittin' in the kitchen's ridiculous
You can have the dog neutered but how bout cuttin' the behind out?
Foul bowels found around the house
You can handle that?
You fuckkin sure?
" Muffy " just took a dump on the rug ya love manure?
What the fucck is it a puppy or a horse?
You seen the size of that log?
Like a size 9 brown loafer
Throw her our the home now yo it's over.......

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