So in one month i'm tying the knot.To be honest I wish i could stay single but it was marriage or brake up and i'm too fat and lazy to find another girl that's too good for me.So here's the question.What changes when you get married? We've lived together for a year, what haven't I experienced?
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So in one month i'm tying the knot.To be honest I wish i could stay single but it was marriage or brake up and i'm too fat and lazy to find another girl that's too good for me.So here's the question.What changes when you get married? We've lived together for a year, what haven't I experienced?
So basically you're settling because you can't find someone else? Why bother getting married? Just stay single and you'll both be happier for it. Good luck though !
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So basically you're settling because you can't find someone else? Why bother getting married? Just stay single and you'll both be happier for it. Good luck though !
Nope, I met her in college when i was 45 lbs lighter, had a full head of hair and gave a shit.If I go back in the dating scene i'll be dealing with piggies.Need advice but get the feeling all i'm gonna get is smart ass comments but that's cool too just make them funny.
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Nope, I met her in college when i was 45 lbs lighter, had a full head of hair and gave a shit.If I go back in the dating scene i'll be dealing with piggies.Need advice but get the feeling all i'm gonna get is smart ass comments but that's cool too just make them funny.
One year is not long enough...give it another year first. Though there are many, many wonderful things you will experience being married, none come to mind right now. Good luck to you.
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One year is not long enough...give it another year first. Though there are many, many wonderful things you will experience being married, none come to mind right now. Good luck to you.
Boy I feel bad for her then. Does she have self esteem issues as well, cuz from what it sounds like, she can do a hell of alot better then you. But to answer your question, if you married to the right person nothing will change, until you have kids, then your life will be consumed by them.
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Boy I feel bad for her then. Does she have self esteem issues as well, cuz from what it sounds like, she can do a hell of alot better then you. But to answer your question, if you married to the right person nothing will change, until you have kids, then your life will be consumed by them.
One year is not long enough...give it another year first. Though there are many, many wonderful things you will experience being married, none come to mind right now. Good luck to you.
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Quote Originally Posted by captjohn67:
One year is not long enough...give it another year first. Though there are many, many wonderful things you will experience being married, none come to mind right now. Good luck to you.
What changes first off is you enter into a business contract with your wife and she gets half your assets UNLESS you have a binding well written prenuptial which can cost $$.
Emotionally, after you are married one or both might get depressed and feel trapped or worse. Affairs might start, etc..
Marriage It might be great for you and work BUT keep in mind that if you are just settling and are not committed it probably WILL NOT WORK. Statistically 50% of marriages end up in divorce as well! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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What changes first off is you enter into a business contract with your wife and she gets half your assets UNLESS you have a binding well written prenuptial which can cost $$.
Emotionally, after you are married one or both might get depressed and feel trapped or worse. Affairs might start, etc..
Marriage It might be great for you and work BUT keep in mind that if you are just settling and are not committed it probably WILL NOT WORK. Statistically 50% of marriages end up in divorce as well! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
As for my advice to you, if you actually CARE about her, then yes marry her. If not, if you are ONLY marrying her because you feel you can't get any better than just FUGGETABOUTIT
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DiverRon has clearly been divorced....
As for my advice to you, if you actually CARE about her, then yes marry her. If not, if you are ONLY marrying her because you feel you can't get any better than just FUGGETABOUTIT
Okay ill be hopnest with you. When I got married my wife was 30 lbs less. We had sex like every single night. She tried her best to cook. She was always ready to go out and have fun. She almost never slept. I love her to death but now its the opposite. She sleeps like a cat. Never wants to do anything and is always bitching and moaning. I have to jerk off like 10 times more than get laid. An excuse after an excuse. Unreal. She comes up with fucked up ones too. My leg hurts. My boobs hurt. I have a headache,stomach ache, blah blah blah.
I never thought shit actaully changes when you get married but it REALLY does. I didnt believe but you really should. I still love her tho becuase im not perfect either.
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Okay ill be hopnest with you. When I got married my wife was 30 lbs less. We had sex like every single night. She tried her best to cook. She was always ready to go out and have fun. She almost never slept. I love her to death but now its the opposite. She sleeps like a cat. Never wants to do anything and is always bitching and moaning. I have to jerk off like 10 times more than get laid. An excuse after an excuse. Unreal. She comes up with fucked up ones too. My leg hurts. My boobs hurt. I have a headache,stomach ache, blah blah blah.
I never thought shit actaully changes when you get married but it REALLY does. I didnt believe but you really should. I still love her tho becuase im not perfect either.
So in one month i'm tying the knot.To be honest I wish i could stay single but it was marriage or brake up and i'm too fat and lazy to find another girl that's too good for me.So here's the question.What changes when you get married? We've lived together for a year, what haven't I experienced?
Reason enough to stay single. Getting married under her "terms & conditions" is a sure fire way to divorce. I'd put the O/U at about 16 months. Do yourself a favor and break it off while you can.
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Quote Originally Posted by Fugettaboutit:
So in one month i'm tying the knot.To be honest I wish i could stay single but it was marriage or brake up and i'm too fat and lazy to find another girl that's too good for me.So here's the question.What changes when you get married? We've lived together for a year, what haven't I experienced?
Reason enough to stay single. Getting married under her "terms & conditions" is a sure fire way to divorce. I'd put the O/U at about 16 months. Do yourself a favor and break it off while you can.
If there is one bit of doubt or hesitation in you...it will not work. Spare yourself and this woman the pain.....be patient until you don't have any doubts. Just talk to her and be honest. She should thank you in the long run.
I've been dating the same woman for two and a half years and she would marry me this weekend.....but she is smart enough to know that I am not ready and it wouldn't last.
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If there is one bit of doubt or hesitation in you...it will not work. Spare yourself and this woman the pain.....be patient until you don't have any doubts. Just talk to her and be honest. She should thank you in the long run.
I've been dating the same woman for two and a half years and she would marry me this weekend.....but she is smart enough to know that I am not ready and it wouldn't last.
it sounds like you were given an ultimatum, either marriage or see ya later. its clear you dont want to get married, but the reason you are giving for getting married is even more of a reason not to.
dont do it cuz its an ultimatum dude tell her no on the marriage but yes on the relationship, if she cant handle that then let her go w/out any other legal contingencies. keep in mind once you get married the break up becomes much more destructive and it sounds like that will eventually be the path you are heading to cuz things get really complicated w/ marriage...
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it sounds like you were given an ultimatum, either marriage or see ya later. its clear you dont want to get married, but the reason you are giving for getting married is even more of a reason not to.
dont do it cuz its an ultimatum dude tell her no on the marriage but yes on the relationship, if she cant handle that then let her go w/out any other legal contingencies. keep in mind once you get married the break up becomes much more destructive and it sounds like that will eventually be the path you are heading to cuz things get really complicated w/ marriage...
Well basically your life will change, you have someone to answer to, sleeping in your bed, and she will take your last name also.
Don't let society force you to get married, or be pressured into it.
I am in the same boat as you, but know that ONLY when you have no BAD feelings or INTUTIONS you should do it--
A simple way to look at it this way-- Will you better off with this woman than without her--
DOes she add positives in your life or negatives? That is key, if postives marry her if too many neagtives stay single--
If this is not the TRUE woman, I would wait, SOME OF the best DECISIONS and GAMBLES in life are the GAMBLES you didnt make-- Ie you will be happier single than unhappily married---
YOu know the answers my friend, the mere fact you posted in here shows me that you know the answer and are looking for reassurance from others--
Your guy instinct tells you the answer, and you know what the right thing to DO IS.
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Well basically your life will change, you have someone to answer to, sleeping in your bed, and she will take your last name also.
Don't let society force you to get married, or be pressured into it.
I am in the same boat as you, but know that ONLY when you have no BAD feelings or INTUTIONS you should do it--
A simple way to look at it this way-- Will you better off with this woman than without her--
DOes she add positives in your life or negatives? That is key, if postives marry her if too many neagtives stay single--
If this is not the TRUE woman, I would wait, SOME OF the best DECISIONS and GAMBLES in life are the GAMBLES you didnt make-- Ie you will be happier single than unhappily married---
YOu know the answers my friend, the mere fact you posted in here shows me that you know the answer and are looking for reassurance from others--
Your guy instinct tells you the answer, and you know what the right thing to DO IS.
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