Ignore a girl after they tell you dont talk to them anymore?

And then you got the saying..."she's worth fighting for". And if someone feels that way...you can't change their mind.

It's easy for us to say "just move on" because we aren't in the situation. We've never met this chick. But you have to look at this at every perspective possible.

Everyone is different. To some...there's pleanty of fish in the sea. To others...the sea isn't that big.

Why ask for peoples opinions then?  No one in this thread has told you to keep pursuing her, at least no one that was serious about it.  Yet you arent going to listen, and I guarantee that you will keep calling her.

You didn't want peoples opinions, you wanted your actions to be justified.

yeah but dude you need her to want you. if you get back with her she has the upper hand and youll never be happy. imho. i know its hard. if its meant to be, she'll call back of get in touch with you, bol

didnt mean to be a dick.

But lets also not forget the main question. Should he wait a week or call right back? His question was never "should I give up on her".

Damn...I'm on the fucking BALL on this topic.

Just giving my 2 cents to the mix. If a kid was a problem...I don't think this thread would have been made. That's usually an instant make or break type of subject.

Now if she were a Red Sox fan...that's another story. But the fact that she takes care of another human being? No Problem

you love her bro. go for it. fuck it.

honestly, i think the best thing to do is wait as long as you possibly can. then call. tell her exactly how you feel. you need to give your obama at the dem convention spch. tell her exactly how you feel. lay your soul on the line. just do your best and be honest really.

then.

hope for the best.

only thing you can do.

dont start

I say call her and take the bullet. You have pleanty of time to pick your battles...I say, since you REALLY like her, just lose this one. Call her, "I'm sorry. Lets go 'Insert place here'", and go from there. Fuck anyone who would say that you lose your "man card" that way because that's BS.

Anytime she brings up an old BF...respond with an "I'm not like that" or "I'd never do that".

Just go for it. The sooner the better. You know, the longer you wait, it'll eat at you. It's not worth it. If something is going to happen...it'll happen. Waiting until next week won't do any good. As it seems it's been figured out already...she likes you. Waiting it out is like playing a game. That's high school shit.