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Quote Originally Posted by Sparky10191:

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back to this man ... love is bad pain. worse than my fucked up life.

 

 
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Quote Originally Posted by Sparky10191:

I say call her and take the bullet. You have pleanty of time to pick your battles...I say, since you REALLY like her, just lose this one. Call her, "I'm sorry. Lets go 'Insert place here'", and go from there. Fuck anyone who would say that you lose your "man card" that way because that's BS.

Anytime she brings up an old BF...respond with an "I'm not like that" or "I'd never do that".

Just go for it. The sooner the better. You know, the longer you wait, it'll eat at you. It's not worth it. If something is going to happen...it'll happen. Waiting until next week won't do any good. As it seems it's been figured out already...she likes you. Waiting it out is like playing a game. That's high school shit.

Ive gone there a little bit. This talk actually happened last week. Before she actually got mad this week we talked and ended up just being "friends" for the moment. No anger or anyting really. Yet still made out that night. Odd for "friends" to do. So it went from a slow down to being friends, to i cant talk to you and this wont work. Thats where im at now. I need to wait at least a couple days while it simmers down
 
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Detox -- Sure is easy to get the last word...isn't it.

Osirus -- Take her to see Friends With Benefits. I haven't seen it...but it looks funny and, if it ends the way I think it will, the friends with benefits will live together in peace and harmony.  Maybe it'll give her another perspective.

 
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If this thread is still up 2 weeks from now...I'll be ready to say "just stop it and this Jersey Shore relationship is meant for 'reality TV' only".

 
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I was gonna take her to see planet of the apes
 
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Quote Originally Posted by Sparky10191:

If this thread is still up 2 weeks from now...I'll be ready to say "just stop it and this Jersey Shore relationship is meant for 'reality TV' only".

Haha im surprised this thread got this many pages and posts. I appreciate the input though. It helps even if my situation doesnt work out.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by Osirus13:

I was gonna take her to see planet of the apes

That movie SCREAMS "I'm sorry".

 
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Quote Originally Posted by Sparky10191:

That movie SCREAMS "I'm sorry".

 
 
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she's to young for you bro 
 
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You better make sure she's still not in love with the jailbird.
 
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OP, you're a mess...

You get involved with woman you work with (in F&B/Hospitality, no less) and get jealous after one month?

The girl you're after has kid whose father is in prison?

What advice would you give your son if he was in your circumstances?
 
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Quote Originally Posted by MrGlue:

OP, you're a mess...

You get involved with woman you work with (in F&B/Hospitality, no less) and get jealous after one month?

The girl you're after has kid whose father is in prison?

What advice would you give your son if he was in your circumstances?
As for your 2nd question, i dont have a problem with a kid and the fact that she has an ex in prison, well thats not an ideal situation but im not gonna let that be an issue because it really isnt to me.
 
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The crazy ones are usually the best ones in the sack---apologize to her even if it wasn't your fault then have wild times GL
 
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Just so freaking figures.  Now you tell someone you don't want to see them with a text. No one with balls or overies these days to do it in person.
 
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Yeah lippsman i wondered that also why  she didnt say it in person.  Im not even gonna worry about that though. I guess she was afraid to
 
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Quote Originally Posted by Lippsman:

Just so freaking figures.  Now you tell someone you don't want to see them with a text. No one with balls or overies these days to do it in person.

Well...I'd see that being a problem if it were a breakup. Make it more repsectful. But this was more of a "fuck you...leave me alone" type of thing.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by Sparky10191:

Well...I'd see that being a problem if it were a breakup. Make it more repsectful. But this was more of a "fuck you...leave me alone" type of thing.

It was a fuck you leave me alone. Id still prefer it too my face but its hardly an issue to me.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by callmetim:

Do not call for a few weeks. Act like you've moved on. She'll then come around. Everyone wants what they can't have.


This is spot on.  Let it go for a few weeks.  Say hi at work and that is it.  Always smile around her and be busy the next two weeks.  Don't take this too personal, but maybe you are a little psycho and should tone it down alot.  Just be cool, relax, be polite and send a SHORT text saying hi how are you in a couple of weeks.  I think it would be ok to be a little short with her--but still polite--if she initiates conversation before then, but CMT is correct.  Let it go for a couple of weeks minimum.  Don't look desperate.  jmho.
 
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This is spot on.  Let it go for a few weeks.  Say hi at work and that is it.  Always smile around her and be busy the next two weeks.  Don't take this too personal, but maybe you are a little psycho and should tone it down alot.  Just be cool, relax, be polite and send a SHORT text saying hi how are you in a couple of weeks.  I think it would be ok to be a little short with her--but still polite--if she initiates conversation before then, but CMT is correct.  Let it go for a couple of weeks minimum.  Don't look desperate.  jmho.
Yeah just small talk is what its gonna be for a bit at work. Not sure if ill make it a couple weeks without trying to actually talk but we will see. Gotta see how she reacts around me i guess
 
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enjoy the single life and your Youth ....

Don't tie yourself down with women that have too many Problems

BOL Brother

BEST OF HEALTH, HAPPINESS,WEALTH, BLESSINGS and LUCK TO ALL !!
 
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Quote Originally Posted by DoubleUp4Life:

enjoy the single life and your Youth ....

Don't tie yourself down with women that have too many Problems

BOL Brother

Lol im 31. Not really young.  Not old but not young either
 
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I really didnt expect my thread to go past 1 page. Its at 4 now damn. Been an interesting talk
 
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Quote Originally Posted by Osirus13:

Yeah just small talk is what its gonna be for a bit at work. Not sure if ill make it a couple weeks without trying to actually talk but we will see. Gotta see how she reacts around me i guess


Again, don't take this personal, but you are not listening.  If you don't want to take good advise, don't ask for some.  Bol whatever happens, but trust CMT and me, wait a few weeks, otherwise, you will look desperate.  Just play it cool.
 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by bandit1010:



This is spot on.  Let it go for a few weeks.  Say hi at work and that is it.  Always smile around her and be busy the next two weeks.  Don't take this too personal, but maybe you are a little psycho and should tone it down alot.  Just be cool, relax, be polite and send a SHORT text saying hi how are you in a couple of weeks.  I think it would be ok to be a little short with her--but still polite--if she initiates conversation before then, but CMT is correct.  Let it go for a couple of weeks minimum.  Don't look desperate.  jmho.

I agree with this...you say you are 31, but you come across as a 18 year old whos never been in a relationship before.

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