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Quote Originally Posted by HutchEmAll:

i think a girl kissing a guy is worse than a guy getting head.
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if a girl cheats on a guy, she is a person, or she caught feelings for someone. i would much rather get cheated on knowing damn well there were no feelings involved [like 9/10 guys that cheat] rather than have my girl kiss some dude, knowing it took her to have feelings to kiss him.

GIRL TO KISS A GUY = FEELINGS

GUY TO GET HEAD FROM A GIRL = BOREDOM, BEING HORNY.

id take the latter. sorry covers love experts. i'll let you get back to your profession.

 
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for a girl to kiss a guy, there's something there, girls dont just go around kissing guys, do you understand that? there's feelins involved, even afer it's done, there's something there.
 
when a guy gets head from a random girl, he could care less if she died 10 minutes later, she doesn't mean shit to him, 10 minutes later he doesn't even remember her name.
 
i guess the guys on covers catch feelings like women, what can i say.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by samuelsosa:

for a girl to kiss a guy, there's something there, girls dont just go around kissing guys, do you understand that? there's feelins involved, even afer it's done, there's something there.
 
when a guy gets head from a random girl, he could care less if she died 10 minutes later, she doesn't mean shit to him, 10 minutes later he doesn't even remember her name.
 
i guess the guys on covers catch feelings like women, what can i say.
 
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 I think you are confusing "working" women with regular women
 
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Quote Originally Posted by ICAPSports:



 I think you are confusing "working" women with regular women
Well if his girlfriend is a person [which would be grounds to leave her on] then by all means she won't catch feelings and will go around kissing guys, yes. But if she's a girl that isn't a person, like girls you wife up shouldnt be, then in order for her to kiss some dude she caught feelings. Id rather it be some meaningless act than her kiss him and catch feelings. Sorry covers.

guy getting a blowjob = no feelings

girl kissing a dude = feelings.

person do not apply

 
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u have to get rid of her
 
 
everytime u scratch your nuts you are gonna wonder
 
i scratch my nuts alot   that would be alot of thinkin    she gone
 
 
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Cheating on you is one thing but to take a guys cock raw is just unacceptable.
 
This chick is stupid for fucking without a condom and I guarentee this guys load ended up in her mouth or face.
 
I am not trying to be rude Iam just opening your eyes to the type of chick you have.  Also if she did this once she probably has done it a few times.
 
Get out bro, it aint worth it.
 
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dump her
 
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As am old guy with years of experience I have to agree with those advising to move on.  I know you have a lot of feelings for this woman and a lot of time invested with her.  However, I think that you will NEVER put this behind you.  It is better to just move on, you will quit hurting after a while.  I might suggest that you might seek counsel some other place besides here, however, before you make a decision.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by pezeveng:

Cheating on you is one thing but to take a guys cock raw is just unacceptable.
 
This chick is stupid for fucking without a condom and I guarentee this guys load ended up in her mouth or face.
 
I am not trying to be rude Iam just opening your eyes to the type of chick you have.  Also if she did this once she probably has done it a few times.
 
Get out bro, it aint worth it.

exactly.

 
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 A once met a wise old guy in a Mississippi bar that told me how to tell if a girl is diseaese free.
 You discretely swab your ear with a finger and then stick that finger in her,if she screams then you run away. 
 
 I don't know the biological reasons behind this theory,but he swears that that method has been sucessfully used for hundreds of years.
 
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tl;dr
 
cliffnotes please
 
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This is a sports betting information website so lets use our heads and think about this problem. The chances of her fucking 1 dude and picking up the clap are way lower than her fucking numerous dudes over a year period and picking up the clap. She would be very unlucky to only hook up with 1 dude and pick up the clap, its possible but highly unlikely. She cheated on you, dump the bitch. I had a girl for 5 years that I found out she jacked off another dude, I dumped the bitch. If she cheats now she is likely to do it again in the future. If you think its tough now, imagine how hard it will be when she does it again.

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Quote Originally Posted by duhrealdeal:

so she calls me up saying she got her std results back from Planned parenthood and it turns out she has chlymedia, im like how did you get this disease, we both were tested last year and were both negative.  She's like i dunno i didn' t cheat, but i know i haven't cheated and the only way to get chlymedia is by  sexual contact so i know  something wasn't right.  after hounding her all night she finally broke down and said she cheated and slept with some dude last year.  Supposely she went over the dudes house and they smoked, watched a movie and they just ended up having sex.   she doesn't tell me about it for a year until gets notice of her std.  u see we been together since highschool for about 6 years now and in the begin of the relationship i cheated on her with 5 different girls and got head from a couple of them, but i never slept with them and wouldn't.  Now this was the beginining of our relationship before i had really strong feelings of loving her.  so then i started to feel bad for what i did relized i loved her so i stopped cheating, and 2 years later like 2006 i told her cheated back then and said how ashamed i was of myself and would never doing it again,(this was my first real relationship)so its been like 5 years since i cheated and i know i would never do anything like that again, i was young i really didn't understand how much i could hurt some1 so i stopped.  Now she tells me she did this shit last year and it just happened? wtf. Now im freaking out at her and she keeps comparing the shit i did 2 her in her past.  Who just sleeps with somebody like that? i mean, a lil kiss is one thing, but sleeping with somebody is another i think right?  And her argument is we both cheated and did eachother wrong.  Me 5 years ago in the begining when it was  alot younger and immaturer, and her just sleeping with some 1 last year 5 years into a relationship when we love each other so much.  i dont know what imma do, i dont know if i can get over this, my gf is so wonderful and sweet, but like she says, she just made a misstake and is sorry.  i keep calling her names and freakin out at her cuz im pissed, but i also feel bad for her, i dunno, im all fucked up.  I want this relationship to work, but i dunno if i can handle this knowing she slept  with another dude last year  when we been dating for 5 years.  Anybody got any suggestions for me?  Im so heart broken and angry, i feel like imma do something thats hurt me and someone else and mayb end up behind bars.  Any body ever have something like this happen to them and were able to forgive there girl?


I have no idea why she would cheat on you. You sound like a smart, sophisticated young man and she sounds like the Homecoming Queen
 
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Quote Originally Posted by HutchEmAll:

she doesn't tell me about it for a year until gets notice of her std.
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So you have been walking around for a year with chlamydia?   
 

I've had it once....and my GF denied it was from her.  I called the last gal I was with....she got tested, sent me the NEGATIVE results, and bitched me out to no end. 
 
I went back to my GF and she broke down crying saying she had only been with one guy recently (before we started dating) and she thought there was no way it could have been him.  Surprise.
 
We both got treated/cured and then I ended up getting a LOT of hummers after that. 
 
But I knew I had chlamidya a few days after I got it.  It took you a year and you never even knew? 

Exactly.  Hutch hit on something and I'm surprised no one has followed up.  Doesn't it sound like this girl only admitted it when she was cornered, but is probably still lying?  This guy said "she doesn't tell me about it for a year until gets notice of her std".  If that timeline is accurate, it is highly unlikely that the guy she admitted to sleeping with is the guy who gave her chlamydia.  It's probably someone else, someone more recent.

Too much to ignore here, duhrealdeal.  She lied initially, then said she slept with someone, and it would seem there are probably others more recently that she slept with too.  Dump her immediately.  And for Christ sake, get yourself checked out.

 
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hoops thinks im a chick!
 
Dude, you both cheated, hers was recently STD lied for a long time...kinda sucks...but u should move on...takes time but seriuosly an STD the whole nine...
 
time to find a singles good ol time...
 
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never forgive a lying person....EVER
 
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Lots of good advice here..
 
 
Let's think about this: the gal you've been seeing for 5 years cheated on you and gave you an STD ...
 
go get treated/checked out and MOVE ON .. no analysis paralysis needed..
 
I also hear that Robbie Alomar's EX GF is available ... and she is a potential Cougar
 
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 a girl cheats on a guy, she is a person, or she caught feelings for someone. i would much rather get cheated on knowing damn well there were no feelings involved [like 9/10 guys that cheat] rather than have my girl kiss some dude, knowing it took her to have feelings to kiss him.

GIRL TO KISS A GUY = FEELINGS

GUY TO GET HEAD FROM A GIRL = BOREDOM, BEING HORNY.

id take the latter. sorry covers love experts. i'll let you get back to your profession.
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You HAVE to be kidding me.  Are you seriously trying to tell me that women aren't capable of kissing someone or even participating in a one nighter without having feelings getting involved? 

I consider myself extremely average in terms of the number of women I've been with (I dated the same gal through most of college so I missed out on a lot).  But I can remember more then a few times where the gal I was with was only interested in sex and nothing more. 

Women can get drunk and cheat without having feelings for someone just like a man can.  Maybe it doesn't happen with as much frequency, but it happens.  The 1980's called.  They would like your thoughts on men and women and sex back. 

 
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By the way, I was at a happy hour a few years back with work folks and we were all hanging out having a good time.  There was this older gal who was a production supervisor who I worked with a lot (I was in HR).  It was about 7:30 and I had to go...so I start putting my coat on.  She's like, "hey, I gotta go, I'll walk out with you."  So we get out to our cars and we're talking a bit.  She goes, "I know I'm married, but I still hope it's OK if I do this" and proceeded to stick her tongue down my throat.  5 minutes later she was off on her way and me on mine.  That was the only time anything like that ever happened....we continued to be good friends and worked together for 3 more years without any problem whatsoever. 

Nothing different then what a guy has done 1000 times. 
 
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Move on bro while there is still time.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by samuelsosa:

if a girl cheats on a guy, she is a person, or she caught feelings for someone. i would much rather get cheated on knowing damn well there were no feelings involved [like 9/10 guys that cheat] rather than have my girl kiss some dude, knowing it took her to have feelings to kiss him.

GIRL TO KISS A GUY = FEELINGS

GUY TO GET HEAD FROM A GIRL = BOREDOM, BEING HORNY.

id take the latter. sorry covers love experts. i'll let you get back to your profession.

I think you have watched "Pretty Woman" a few too many times. I would rather have my wife kiss a guy on the lips than kiss a guy on his cock. Maybe that's just me.

 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by HutchEmAll:

 a girl cheats on a guy, she is a person, or she caught feelings for someone. i would much rather get cheated on knowing damn well there were no feelings involved [like 9/10 guys that cheat] rather than have my girl kiss some dude, knowing it took her to have feelings to kiss him.

GIRL TO KISS A GUY = FEELINGS

GUY TO GET HEAD FROM A GIRL = BOREDOM, BEING HORNY.

id take the latter. sorry covers love experts. i'll let you get back to your profession.
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You HAVE to be kidding me.  Are you seriously trying to tell me that women aren't capable of kissing someone or even participating in a one nighter without having feelings getting involved? 

I consider myself extremely average in terms of the number of women I've been with (I dated the same gal through most of college so I missed out on a lot).  But I can remember more then a few times where the gal I was with was only interested in sex and nothing more. 

Women can get drunk and cheat without having feelings for someone just like a man can.  Maybe it doesn't happen with as much frequency, but it happens.  The 1980's called.  They would like your thoughts on men and women and sex back. 

You see....OF COURSE it can happen. But girls who are just out for sex are considered person. I was trying to answer the question with the assumption that his girl was NOT  a person. No self-respecting woman is only out for sex, those are person. If his girl is a person he should leave her based on that alone. Let's assume she isn't a person, then there were feelings involved which I find alot worse than a one night stand, do you understand?
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