getting dumped....how did you get over it?

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Long distance relationship just blew up on me. She didn't want to move from Chicago to Phoenix and I can't say I blame her. I'm pretty mind fucked right now. I don't even think I'd be capable of trying to go land some new ass to forget about things at the moment. My dick feels like it turtle headed back into body and won't come back. It's like I just railed a few lines of blow....im that limp. Wish I had some Xanax right now. I kind of want to go on a bender but I feel like that would just make me feel worse. Might drive to Vegas tomorrow to blow off some steam if I can motivate myself. Gonna go on a long run to clear my mind in a little. I think that will help somewhat. I haven't been dumped since high school days. This fucking blows....

feel free to gimme some tips or to rip on me. Both are welcome

Messier-11 · Answer

Long distance relationship just blew up on me. She didn't want to move from Chicago to Phoenix and I can't say I blame her. I'm pretty mind fucked right now. I don't even think I'd be capable of trying to go land some new ass to forget about things at the moment. My dick feels like it turtle headed back into body and won't come back. It's like I just railed a few lines of blow....im that limp. Wish I had some Xanax right now. I kind of want to go on a bender but I feel like that would just make me feel worse. Might drive to Vegas tomorrow to blow off some steam if I can motivate myself. Gonna go on a long run to clear my mind in a little. I think that will help somewhat. I haven't been dumped since high school days. This fucking blows....

feel free to gimme some tips or to rip on me. Both are welcome

lsufasteddie · Answer

Frick somebody else

TdotCapper · Answer

Gamble gamble and gamble even more.  In life IMO there&#x27;s only one thing more important than money.... thats more money.  Keep raking my friend

Messier-11 · Answer

I have a bad feeling I&#x27;m going to lose all my bets and feel worse haha

Hugh_Jorgan · Answer

For starters, please remove The Captain as your avatar &#x2026; ya can&#x27;t be getting all wishy-washy on here and still keep The Captain as an av

Waxi · Answer

&#xD;&#xA;You are an idiot. &#xD;&#xA;He is in a bad frame of mind. Making $ in a good frame of mind is tough enough.

mojo822 · Answer

Well Dopalicous just dumped his avatar, think you might need a Slumpbuster to get over your loss

gutcheck · Answer

We have all been through this BS, women can fuck you up. All you can do is move on with your life. You will find someone else.

The Hawk · Answer

Whatever you do, don&#x27;t turn yourself into a "rebounder"&#xD;&#xA;I don&#x27;t wanna hear&#xD;&#xA;"I can find someone right here" No, you can&#x27;t. If you could, you would have.&#xD;&#xA;"She looks a lot like......" Great. Way to remind yourself.&#xD;&#xA;"I knew she was too good for me" It&#x27;s her loss. She&#x27;s the one that quit.&#xD;&#xA;Like the Sinatra song, you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, start all over again.................&#xD;&#xA;Where to start? In a new direction. You now have more time to.......run.........go to Vegas.............etc. There has got to be something you can improve on, study harder. Ball games? Blackjack? Something more practical? God forbid, better employee. Ever bring donuts to work? First time for everything.&#xD;&#xA;Don&#x27;t go looking. Don&#x27;t remind yourself. When it happens, you&#x27;ll know. When you&#x27;re ready to jump back in, let her know. I don&#x27;t mean on the 1st date, but you&#x27;ll know when. Don&#x27;t tell her you got dumped, just a bad separation. Tell her you&#x27;re being honest, and you expect the same. Tell her you&#x27;re "as is", because you are busy investing time in yourself-you wanna come along-you&#x27;re welcome to enjoy the ride.&#xD;&#xA;If you stay the same, expect the same results. Just change one thing. Just one. Then work on something else. This test will not be timed-but get going!

TdotCapper · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by Waxi] &#xD;&#xA;&#xD;&#xA;You are an idiot. &#xD;&#xA;He is in a bad frame of mind. Making $ in a good frame of mind is tough enough.&#xD;&#xA;[/Quote]&#xD;&#xA;Oh so he should just sit his ass eat ice cream and watch tv all day?  You should never cry for money because money will never cry for you my friend.  Win or lose getting his mind off the woman if key.  Btw your an idiot

mojo822 · Answer

All joking put aside&gt; Sorry for your loss, No how you feel. I was dumped when I was on the Iraqi- Kuwait border in my 3rd month in what turned out to be 14 month deployment.&#xD;&#xA;found out thru an email, talk about a kick in the balls&#xD;&#xA;Just don&#x27;t do anything stupid like get shitface 1 night and call her on the cell phone, Try to stay positve and just say its a new chapter in your life

ad1260 · Answer

gl man...definitely a shitty feeling but you will recover...we always do

kaponofor3 · Answer

Time heals all wounds, bro. Doesn&#x27;t make it any easier but its the truth. Maybe jump into a new obsession or hobby that you can do with others? A morning yoga class or something so you can check out some single lady tail?

lovethedough · Answer

Don&#x27;t call her...ever again!!!&#xD;&#xA;Pretend she is dead!!!!&#xD;&#xA;if you do that, you will be dating girls by the end of the summer.&#xD;&#xA;if u don&#x27;t listen to me, you will be a depressed, snivelling box.&#xD;&#xA;hopefully you dont call her, ansewr her calls...no contact what so ever....its hard, but its the only thing you can do.&#xD;&#xA;wait 6 weeks...go on an internet dating site...you will get plenty of dates.  who needs a  long distance relationship anyway?  its stupid....as of now...she&#x27;s dead.  Fuck her, breaking up with you...mourn for a week...get some new clothes, haircut...get back on your game...youre too good for her

TRAIN69 · Answer

Best way to get over her is to get under someone else.&#xD;&#xA;Now you are completely free, dont underestimate the positives here.

Messier-11 · Answer

Ya I&#x27;m leaning towards not calling her. She still wants to talk and explain things some more tonight when she gets off work. I really love this girl....is it worth it for me to try and convince her not to end things? Or do i come off as a weak box and make any shot of getting back together in the future even slimmer. It seems like she made up her mind though. She wants to have fun with her friends and be single. Still in shock about the whole thing. She was here visiting two weeks ago and we had a blast. Girls are fucking crazy.

kaponofor3 · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by Messier-11]  Ya I&#x27;m leaning towards not calling her. She still wants to talk and explain things some more tonight when she gets off work. I really love this girl....is it worth it for me to try and convince her not to end things? Or do i come off as a weak box and make any shot of getting back together in the future even slimmer. It seems like she made up her mind though. She wants to have fun with her friends and be single. Still in shock about the whole thing. She was here visiting two weeks ago and we had a blast. Girls are fucking crazy.  [/Quote]NO NO NO.She made her decision. Do you really want to sit there and listen to her tell you WHY she is crushing your heart? Again. She made her decision. Quite frankly it doesn&#x27;t matter why. She must live with her consequences now, and one of the consequences is that she doesn&#x27;t get to just call you and talk about her feelings or call you whenever she likes to just chat.

kaponofor3 · Answer

Messier, you need to get the power back in this relationship, she's feeling very powerful because she dumped you. You flip the script on this girl and YOU control when (or even --IF--) you communicate, not her.

Messier-11 · Answer

The thought of her fucking new guys and sucking their dicks is haunting me I think I&#x27;m going to take your advice and just ignore completely.

willneverstop · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by Messier-11]  Ya I&#x27;m leaning towards not calling her. She still wants to talk and explain things some more tonight when she gets off work. I really love this girl....is it worth it for me to try and convince her not to end things? Or do i come off as a weak box and make any shot of getting back together in the future even slimmer. It seems like she made up her mind though. She wants to have fun with her friends and be single. Still in shock about the whole thing. She was here visiting two weeks ago and we had a blast. Girls are fucking crazy.  [/Quote]WHEN A BROAD TELLS YOU SHE JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN WITH THE GIRLS THAT MEANS SHE FOUND ANOTHER GUY, HAD FUN WITH HIM AND WANT TO EXPERIENCE THAT AGAIN. ANYWAYS IF YOUR YOUNGER THEN 25 YOU SHOULDNT BE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ANYWAYS, YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE TO ME MISERABLE ( MARRIED) SO ENJOY ALL THE DIFFERENT box WHILE YOU CAN. ON A SIDE NOTE YOU MAY SAY TO YOURSELF NOW THAT THERE IS NO WAY YOU WILL GET OVER THIS, WE ALL SAY THAT AND WE ALL GET OVER IT, TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, IT REALLY DOES

IgetMoney101 · Answer

If you can have sex with one of her friends. That can make the pain go away

kaponofor3 · Answer

[Quote: Originally Posted by Messier-11]  The thought of her fucking new guys and sucking their dicks is haunting me I think I&#x27;m going to take your advice and just ignore completely.  [/Quote]That is why you break off all contact completely. I dated a girl in college for three years and could never imagine her being with someone else. Then I moved away to law school, got a new girlfriend, and now I look at her facebook page and see that she is engaged and I actually think "wow good for her, I hope she is happy." That feeling of sickness when you think about it will fade with time.

drJ · Answer

I didnt read anyone elses response but i have always done the same thing whether it was early girlfriends or my first wife. I always and i mean always bang anything i can but never relationship material, even a hooker is good, maybe the best.

when i left my ex wife( who by the way is a person) i thought about all the chicks id turned down because i was married. screwed a couple, never called them later and spent a week with a stripper who shoved a vibrator up her ass while i was doing her and pointed the vibrator tip on me.

ex wife, ex girlfriend ....whats that...i cant remember, i just laid by a pro with anal device skills.

or you could take prozac

or you could exercise and eat well and hang out with good friends and let time heal your pain...that works the best if you're not a crazy pig man person like i used to be until mrs drJ 11 yrs ago. very very nice hubby now.

IlliniBill · Answer

A lot of good advice above.  Go on a bender, fuck a couple fat girls and slumpbusters, and completely ignore her. Like someone else said, why do you really want to hear why she is ending it, more than likely it&#x27;s not the whole truth anyway.  Bitches lie just as much as we do, but they are just better at it.  Get back on the horse and it will get easier with time.  BOL man.

jamesxnj · Answer

You talk and say have a nice life,let&#x27;s still be friends ,keep in touch..I swear and I will bet within 12/18 months she is calling you for a shoulder to cry on,but by that time you have a new GF and thinking to yourself about the time/effort/$ wasted on her..&#xD;&#xA;Good luck

getting dumped....how did you get over it?

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