getting dumped....how did you get over it?

Dumped?

Go outside.

Take a deep breath.

Look up at the sky.

Shout "gods of freedome I'm yours!"

I am in my 70s and believe you me, I have seen it all.  I've been dumped once myself and I have dumped many too. The one that dumped me came crawling back . I tried to get back with her, I just couldn't trust her again. So I walked, but it hurt.

It's a terrible feeling being dumped but you must Man-up for your own sense of self-respect.

I didn't read all your reply posts but sounds likes you are on the hook and she is really enjoying the catch, just reeling you in, and every once in a while you fight back, that's when she tugs harder. Once she gets you in her boat, she'll toss you over like a limp mackerel.

Dude ..Find someone who wants you. that you can live with.  I tell this to my son and grandson. There is a giver and taker in every relationship. You can always tell, they are the ones doing all the giving. You can tell just by watching a couple, look for the one who is leaning closer.

Man-up, because females want a man, not a wimpy guy.

Took a month and a half long back backing vacation thru Europe just before my final year of college. About once a week or so I'd call or email and everything seemed fine. I was with this woman from my senior year in high school until this point. I got back in town the day after my birthday. My phone was home. I turned it on and checked my messages from the past month.

There it was, on my birthday, she breaking up with me via voicemail. I couldn't believe it. That trip, on those long train rides from the south of France and into Italy, looking out the window at the prairies and small towns, I just sat there thinking about our future together and how I was going to propose that Christmas. (Our anniversary). All flushed down the toilet.

About a week later she called me and wanted to meet up. I was so broken down but agreed. We went out to eat and came home. She looked at my pictures and the whole time she was just offering herself to me. So we started on the couch. I picked her up and carried her into my bedroom. However, I had to piss really abd and my cock was rock hard. So it took me a bit longer than usual. When I came out of the bathroom she was getting dressed. All emotional saying that this was a mistake and she couldn't go thru with it.

Again a total mind p..h..uck! I had a female roommate and she helped me cope and understand the female mind. I was over it. A few weeks went by and I just moped around. I took a real estate course wanted to get a license on the side. Met a beautiful woman and let things evolve naturally without being pushy. Again, my ex called wanting to meet up. This time horny as hell. Said she would pay for the hotel room and that we should get married and all kinds of crazy stuff. I kicked that beeotch to the curb that day. Continued to pursue this other relationship which lasted 3 years and was an amazing time.

Not sure why I posted this as I'm sure this thread is dead and the OP has moved on. Its been 2 years!! but for the young fools out there. Im talking guys 18-35. Do not worry about a breakup. Its hard but you must not let it bring you down. There is always someone better out there. Always!