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do everything you said EXCEPT GET MARRIED! IF YOU THINK YOU LOST MONEY GAMBLING WAIT TILL YOU HAVE A WIFE, IF YOU THINK YOUR STRESSED WAIT TILL YOU HAVE A WIFE.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by willneverstop:

do everything you said EXCEPT GET MARRIED! IF YOU THINK YOU LOST MONEY GAMBLING WAIT TILL YOU HAVE A WIFE, IF YOU THINK YOUR STRESSED WAIT TILL YOU HAVE A WIFE.


You will lose even more money married with kids.


 
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messier you dont know how lucky you are having a broad tell you that you were able to fuck her and use her as a juice dumpster for years and she dont even want to nag, fight and take all your money for years to come, you should send that bum she left you for a thank you card... seriously
 
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Messier, I was where you were 9 months ago. More than likely my ex was banging the guy behind my back. More than likely as in OJ Simpson more than likely murdered Nicole.

In fact she even introduced me to the guy near the end of our relationship! 

I made tons of mistakes in hindsight but I promise you this I will NEVER take her back.

None of the stuff we are saying now might not make sense but do it anyways...TRUST ME.

Now get over to the getting girls strategy thread I started and lets put our minds together. 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by kaponofor3:



I'm not gonna lie, I did this in college to a girl who dumped me. A few years go by, she gets ahold of me again and actually drives from where she lived in Stockton to where I was (about 4 hours away at the time) to spend the night and "hang out". I hit it and while I was getting ready to finish, she looked into my eyes and said "you really did care about me"....  She left the next morning, and I have not seen her since that date. Never called her back after that despite her blowing up my phone on the regular, calling me an asshole, etc.

Now THAT is brutal. 

 
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Quote Originally Posted by Messier-11:

Shits driving me crazy. I'm trying to be strong. Been working out a lot and trying to stay busy. Seems like every song on the radio is about love and getting heartbroken. Every movie on tv is the same way. Mind fucking me. And almost everything seems to remind me of her. I went out for breakfast this morning and got eggs benedict.....one of her favorites and it made me sad to think about even though its one of mine also. Do i throw out all the shit that reminds me of her? My ipod, sunglasses, pictures, etc? This shit blows and the Xanax has only really helped me get sleep at night. I don't take it during the day so i can be active. I have also lost all interest in gambling. Fired out a few plays today but I already feel like they will probably lose anyway. Maybe I should just cash out or try and double up a few times then cashout or be done with it for a while. She called me two nights ago late at night and we had an amazing convo for 40 minutes. Felt like things were gonna go back to normal. i texted her the next morning how I missed her and things got weird again. She didn't talk to me since. I am now on board with pretending she is dead and moving on for real. Its fucking tough though.

You are falling into the trap.  She gets all the benefits of having you there and you get all the pain of having to relive this day after day after day.  You lose. 

 
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go on vacation now.  tell us how it was in a few weeks.  enjoy the lack of betting.  i always like summer.
 
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Costa Rica heals all, have a blast
 
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When a woman breaks up with you all you have to do is agree with her.  "Yeah I've been giving it some thought also, and maybe this if for the best.".... no matter how hard it is to say thats what you do.  That mentality will drive her crazy becuase its not something she expects you to agree with. 

After that, stop talking to her.  By now, if she wants you back, she is going to have to work for it.  No doubt if the relationship was meaningful she will recognize this over time and miss you.  You are a self guided man and what other women do never phases you... women find this very attractive.  Be self guided and you will be wanted, fact.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by Larry_Legend:

When a woman breaks up with you all you have to do is agree with her.  "Yeah I've been giving it some thought also, and maybe this if for the best.".... no matter how hard it is to say thats what you do.  That mentality will drive her crazy becuase its not something she expects you to agree with. 

After that, stop talking to her.  By now, if she wants you back, she is going to have to work for it.  No doubt if the relationship was meaningful she will recognize this over time and miss you.  You are a self guided man and what other women do never phases you... women find this very attractive.  Be self guided and you will be wanted, fact.

too late for that approach for him now...best thing is the hand wig and load up on some jergens lotion...
 
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Here is the wonderful gem...
 
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i am not sure how you get over it, but at least i know how to search for threads and resurrect this post....
 
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Haven't seen this thread in a while! Ironic since my gf and I broke up two nights ago as well. Dating only 6 months but still kind of ironic.

She also came clean about going through my phone after we broke up as well. I WAS considering taking her back until she dropped that dime on me. No chance of that happening now.

Hope things are going well for you Mess.

 
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Well K,  when she went through your phone did she find you cheating or plotting to cheat on her.....then you'd be like messier who was on his way to a hummer before his g-friend left him.

OR did she just find out usual guy stuff and in that case its good you're done with a woman you'll never be able to trust.

trust is very very important
 
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Keep your head up.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by drJ:

Well K,  when she went through your phone did she find you cheating or plotting to cheat on her.....then you'd be like messier who was on his way to a hummer before his g-friend left him.

OR did she just find out usual guy stuff and in that case its good you're done with a woman you'll never be able to trust.

trust is very very important

Didn't cheat, wasn't on my way to cheat, never even thought about cheating. I was texting a female friend that lives across the country from me and who I haven't seen in years about how I wasn't exactly thrilled about the way our relationship was going. Nothing terrible though and nothing derogatory.

This isn't the first time she has gone through my phone either. I told her the first time that I wasn't happy about it and I didn't want her doing it again.

I agree trust is important and I cant trust her anymore.

 
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Had that happen to me years ago when I dated a coworker who was from Pittsburgh,Pa. We decided to visit her family in Mesa,Az and she said taht she wanted to stay there.It sucked because my work and family are on the east coast here in the Philly area.Thank goodness after a few months time I started to feel better mentally but I must admit that I never would allow myself to go head over heels over anyone again and taht includes my wife.
 
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jsab, what are your thoughts about dating a co-worker?  Most say to stay away
 
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Quote Originally Posted by ProtoStar:

Also buy a slingshot.  Women tend to be attracted to a man who can use a slingshot.  Take it to the bar and some rocks.  Start talking to a woman and right after you say "hey how are you?".....take the slingshot out and say "watch this".  Take the rock out slowly and peg the biggest guy in the room in the head.  Then run.  Next time you see the woman she is putty in your hands.


 
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not shocked this thread was dug up from the grave. I've been on austinhoopsmind a lot lately. I think he likes me
 
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I dont know. I still havent. I cry myself to sleep every night.
 
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"The thought of her fucking new guys and sucking their dicks is haunting me I think I'm going to take your advice and just ignore completely."

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Quote Originally Posted by AustinHoopDream:

"The thought of her fucking new guys and sucking their dicks is haunting me I think I'm going to take your advice and just ignore completely."

Messier-11

"It's official....I'm a box. I just made a photo album book for her of all our good photos and on the back page wrote a message saying that I'll always love her and that I understand long distance is tough. Maybe change and a fresh start will be a good thing for both of us. You have been my best friend these last 5 years, almost like family. Hopefully one day we can still be friends. I'm not going to say another word from here on out.  I promise."

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you have issues dude
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